Getting my mind right - kinda long, help please.

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So I am 26 and I am a stay at home/work at home mom of 2 (2 years and 6 months). I work for Arise Virtual Solutions as a chat representative 20 hours a week for one of the companies that contracts them out.

My boyfriend and I have been having issues, so I have not been able to focus on my eBay store to bring in extra income or internet marketing. It looks like I might have to find an out of the house job just in case we break up so I can take care of the kids.

My question is - how do I stay positive and believe in myself if I have to work full-time outside of the house and then come home to take care of my 2 little ones? Can it be done? Are any of you parents that are working and then doing IM or network marketing at night?

I know it can be done, I am a firm believer in the law of attraction and the power of intention/positive thoughts. I guess a lot is going on right now and I just need to know that other people have or are doing it.
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  • Profile picture of the author JamesBuk
    Originally Posted by shaynjordan View Post

    So I am 26 and I am a stay at home/work at home mom of 2 (2 years and 6 months). I work for Arise Virtual Solutions as a chat representative 20 hours a week for one of the companies that contracts them out.

    My boyfriend and I have been having issues, so I have not been able to focus on my eBay store to bring in extra income or internet marketing. It looks like I might have to find an out of the house job just in case we break up so I can take care of the kids.

    My question is - how do I stay positive and believe in myself if I have to work full-time outside of the house and then come home to take care of my 2 little ones? Can it be done? Are any of you parents that are working and then doing IM or network marketing at night?

    I know it can be done, I am a firm believer in the law of attraction and the power of intention/positive thoughts. I guess a lot is going on right now and I just need to know that other people have or are doing it.
    Hi there

    Im from the UK but i hope what i say helps you alot. Please do read the posts I have posted and read all the contents, as its all indirectly to do with the law of attraction but predominately on visualisation and affirmations

    The law of attraction works on your subsconcious beliefs, thats the basics of it. We have to change those beliefs, to change what you attract and also how you feel and what action you take.

    My suggestion and advice is this, presuming you have or will read my posts anyway...

    Describe in detail what it is that you want, in your case a scenario I assume would be being happy jugglin work and the children etc and looking at a clock and going gosh i have so much energy and time and i have done all i need to wow life is amazing

    then you have to write a single affirmation that sums this up, im not sure what you can write, but hope you and others can help you here.

    then you need to get into a relaxed state, visualise your scenario or mental movie, in as much detail as possible (this gets easier and better with practice so dont worry n expect miracles straight away though they cud also happen lol)

    then either during or at the end of the movie repeat your affirmation 10-20times time permitting with feeling and gusto

    thats it, do that once a day or twice a day atleast. Many say to do this upon waking and going to sleep, again read my posts im a new member here so there isnt alot to read but its good stuff im sure

    This is what will change your mindset, as well as attract what you want to you

    hope that helps
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  • Profile picture of the author Lasse Borg
    Hi!
    I am a father of three, working full time out of the house and do IM in the evenings/nights, so I can relate to your situation. Only I'm not about to break up with my wife, so I can only imagine that you have a hard time.
    But just know this: You CAN do it, because you have to do it - period. We humans can do the most incredible things when there's no turning around - it's just amazing.
    An advice when you only have like 3-4 hours dedicated to IM a day: Get very focused and work lazer targeted on the things that will drive your business forward and do NOT allow yourself to get sidetracked of the newest and hottest bling-bling one-click-riches products.
    I feel with you and wish you all the best, and truly hope you'll succeed with your IM adventures. All the best.
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  • Profile picture of the author shaynjordan
    Thanks. I know I can do it, it is all mental and we aren't 100% breaking up, I just want to be prepared and make sure my kids and myself are taken care of.

    I appreciate both of your posts. I think I will set up a game plan for after the kids go to sleep so I can really focus in on making money and not dilly dally around.
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  • Profile picture of the author krtinberg
    Where there's a will there's a way.. One of my good friend takes care of her three kids and works a full time job along with an online business she started last year. You're personal time will suffer especially in the initial stages but it's very doable
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