Personally , i have found it to be quite challenging . Especially the complaining part , it is easy not to explain to anyone . Just don't say anything . that is easy although you may come across as arrogant

Complain is a like bad habit am trying to curb . i am much better than i was before .Used to be a serial complainer now , i made efforts to look for the good , look for what is present , look for what i am grateful for rather what is missing , lacking or has been done yet

Cheers

Femi

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It sounds challenging but it could be a good thing if you worked hard enough and started changing your attitude to your problems.

Thats not very practical tho

I believe everything happens for a reason whether you know it or not. As such complaining is going against this principle. You may complain about a flight delay yet, the reason for the delay was occasioned to avoid an accident. You may complain about a power blackout yet, that blackout is what will save a man from getting killed.

The best way to handle any situation is to work for a better future while remaining positive. Difficult...yes...but possible.

The most successful people usually don't do much of these things because they don't care for them. If you allow yourself to complain then you are already in a mindset to set yourself back from doing any task. However if you view it as an opportunity to get something else done then you don't loose, you just transfer your energy into something else.

This takes work but if you can get there ... things are good lol

cheers

Well, usually complaining comes from an emotional dis-balance and breakdown. Complaining makes things worst.

Can anyone explain me what never explaining means and what the purpose of it? I have never heard before about that concept.

Thats funny, it's what my Father always used to say. Complaining never did anyone any good anyway.

Sometimes we complain to here it for our "self". To say never to anything is naive. We're "hue"man. We reflect a full range of color and emotion including the good the bad and the ugly. Nobody does any one thing always. When you begin to complain look for the why, the deeper reason and excavate that. When you figure out the deeper reasons the complaints will turn to laughter much of the time.

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I choose to complain only to the people that really understand me....about the explanation part, well I am not a good teacher so most of the time it's hard for me to make my self understood.

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