Self talk

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Hi,

If somone tell to your child or someone that you love that she or he stupid, not intelligent, etc. You will become angry and you even become physically violent.

We call ourselves with the same bad names.

If is not OK for others, why it's OK for ourselves to do so?

This is what we do everyday unconsiously. So, we must have the right mindset to have success. Right?

We must filter what come inside of us. We must be careful about it.

bye

Hugo
#mind warriors #talk
  • Thats true,recitation goes a long in affecting how we think. That is why we should be careful what we listen to everyday...
  • Negative self-talk is a huge roadblock for many, many people. Whenever I am having issues getting some work done, or completing a project, it's usually always linked to some kind of negative self-talk. Once I change the way I view the situation, it frees me up to succeed.
  • Hey Hugo,

    It is very important to remove as much negativity in ones life and replace it with something positive. There is so much depressing news, events, etc. that if you just choose to not watch them, your life will be much improved. Have a news blackout for one month and see what happens.

    David K
  • Rule your mind, do not let your mind rule you! Do this by being a mind watcher. When you notice that you are thinking negative thoughts, just stop and replace them with some thing positive. As simple as this sounds, it takes practice to do.
    Doug
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    • Another thing that helps in removing the negative self talk and the negative talk period, is to become as neutral to what is going on around you as possible.
      If you see or hear something and get into a negative emotion about it, it is harder to keep from thinking negative thoughts. But, if you're neutral to whatever is happening, then you'll become more of an observer and less of a participant in the negativity, and you'll tend to stop thinking negative thought and having negative feelings.
  • One simple philosophy that can help us deal with this.

    Do unto others what you wish they would do to you.

    Cheers
    Vincent
    Personal Development Blogger
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    • jsut make a positive self talk everyday , a kind of sentence (postiive) that you might need for your current situation. You'll shock to see the result
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  • it's true.. mindset is very important and can be done by self talk too
  • I read somewhere you are what you habitually think...and i agree
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    • I totally agree to it. If your mind is thiking for sucess maximam time in a day. You should be sure, sucess is on your way. And vice versa
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  • It should go along like this:

    If you truly love somebody, you will only want to give that person the best.

    If you truly love yourself, you will only want to give yourself the best.

    How true.
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    • meditation helps a lot with controlling your mind chatter. it doen't have to be anything extreme, just 10 minutes a day is already very beneficial..
  • Yes, I def have to agree with you here. It is very important that you keep yourself in a positive mindset at all times. The key to success is you have to work hard than anyone else you know. To do that we have to follow law of attraction. Law of attraction states that whatever we think in our mind and beleive that is exactly what will happen.
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    Hi, If somone tell to your child or someone that you love that she or he stupid, not intelligent, etc. You will become angry and you even become physically violent.