How To Be A Winner

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Don't you just love winning?

I hate losing with a passion, but I love winning over and over and over again.

Seriously, if I could just go through life winning everything and never losing, I would be one happy brother.

I'm assuming that you would love to get more "W's" in your life and decrease your "L's".

So, let me reveal the steps you need to take in order to be a winner.

Before you take any actions , you need to have an idea of what actions need to be taken in order to reach your desired result.

Simply put, if you take the actions of a winner, you will get the outcome of a winner. If you take the actions of a loser, you will get the outcome of a loser.

So, you need to sit down and write out the steps you need to take in order to become a winner.

Now, if you don't know what actions you need to take in order to become a winner I'm going to help you out with that.

The actions you wrote down are probably an underestimation of what you actually have to do in order to be a winner. What you need to do is double or even triple the amount of actions you first thought were necessary to be a winner.

Now at first glance you probably think that doubling or tripling the amount action you take will lead to exhaustion or overworking, but that is just fear and anxiety clouding your thoughts.

Right now you're just writing down the actions you need to take, this is no time to get emotional about the amount of effort it will require to take the actions.

After you have written down the actions of a winner, you need to figure out how you can reach those actions in a timely manner.

So for example, if you decide to begin a 50 pushups per day challenge, you should go for 100 pushups instead. If you're not an athletically gifted person, you will probably have a hard time cranking out 20 pushups, so as of now 100 pushups is out of reach.

Now, there is no problem with starting small and working your way up. Actually, that is the only way to do it. If you can't do 100 pushups as of today, there is no magic phrase, or pill that will make you do 100 pushups instantly.
The only way to reach 100 pushups is to do as much pushups as you can and then increase the amount of pushups you do each day until you reach 100.

That is exact approach you need to take with any goal and you need to push yourself past your limits and take actions associated with a goal much higher ( which is why I said you need to double or triple the amount of actions you take towards your goal). The idea is to push yourself passed your original goal, so that if you were to come up short you would still end up achieving your goal.

Get it?

Another important part of reaching the action levels of a winner is to be consistent and disciplined with doing so.


That means you need to make it a discipline to take the actions of a winner on a daily basis without fail. You also need to have a reason "why" you're taking these actions or else you will end up quitting at the first sign of resistance.

Motivation plays a big part in the amount of action you take, so if you're not motivated to reach your goal, you probably won't reach it. You need to figure out a way to get motivated and stay motivated on a daily basis to take the actions of a winner.

So, to sum it all up, you need to decide upon the actions of a winner, double or triple those actions, work your way up to those actions, and stay consistent and motivated throughout the process.

If you can follow that formula, you will be a winner.

If you can't follow that formula, you'll probably end up a loser.

Which one do you choose?
#mind warriors #winner
  • Always take time to rest, because burnout is real, I am still recovering from it
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    • You're right you can burnout, but that usually comes along when you run out of motivation to keep going. Correct me if I'm wrong, but if you were able to stay highly motivated every day, would you ever experience burnout?

      So, it is important to find reasons to keep going, especially when you experience minimum to no results in the beginning.

      One of my biggest daily motivators for every goal I set is the fact that if I don't achieve my goal, nobody will achieve it for me, therefore, that leaves me no option other than to achieve my goal.
  • Progressive improvements and enjoying the process along the way

    The attitude of a winner to learn from failures

    Danny
  • so if my goal is to have one smoking hot girlfriend ..i should really aim to have two or three ?


    or are there exceptions to the formula for winning ?

    isn't it better to set goal that can be achieved and then set higher goals .

    or is this dogma of shooting much highers just there so most people will fail .. or not even bother ..

    great for the motivational and goal setting book writers .. a pile of crap for the readers .

    if someone set a goal to do 50 pushups a day say great do 50.. but are you no even worse than a dream stealer ... if you go through someone elses goal and tell them non of them are good enough .

    gut or girl hits 50 then ask them if they thing they can do a hundred .. because if they set the hundred and only get to 50.. many times they may quit out of frustration and stop all together .

    it the winning forumula only the winning formula because it is designed to make most people fail .
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      Absolutely.
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    • I don't think you get where I'm going with this, so I'll try to make it more clear. Most people set a goal and don't reach it because they underestimate the amount of effort it takes to reach that goal.

      So, if I set my goal towards getting 1 girlfriend, I'll probably talk to a girl here and there and hope for the best, but if I set my goal to three girlfriends, I would obviously have to increase my effort. So, if I'm aiming for three girlfriends, while taking the actions necessary to get three girlfriends and I come up short, I'll probably still end up with one girlfriend which is what I wanted originally.

      Make sense?

      Like Jonathan 2.0 said, you can only fail if you give up. So, therefore your definition of failing is completely different from my definition of failing. The whole point I'm trying to get across is if you set a goal at exactly what you want, you probably are going to underestimate the amount of effort it takes to reach that goal. So, instead of setting that goal, aim for something greater and take the actions associated with that greater goal. Then if you come up short you will still end up reaching your original goal or better (as long as you don't give up).
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    If you set goals and accomplish them (no matter how small or large) then you could call yourself a "winner."

    Actually, in my opinion, if you keep trying and trying and trying (regardless of the results) and you simply refuse to quit, then you're also a "winner." And, eventually, you will succeed.

    Just my opinion. : )

    P.S.
    One of my favourite quotations at the moment (from ) which I found through LOA is:

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  • and i thought all i had to do was come first
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  • Cool post. Especially when you talked about underestimating the work you need to do.

    My favorite part of the achievement process is when you realize what actually needs to be done to achieve your goal, and are excited for it!
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  • Excellent post. A lot of core values to winning are here, I think.

    Discipline is such a big factor in everything we do, yet so many people over look it and lack proper education in what it really is and means! Coming from the military, it means a lot more than snapping to attention when told!

    Writing down goals, figuring out your map, and coming up with actions to get there is crucial.

    Good tips in here, to anyone whether marketeer or athlete. Winning doesn't come by chance.
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