What we look at, and how we look at life, is critical to developing correct beliefs and their subsequent actions. Your observation about what you see trigger your belief. That which you continually look at and talk about, you will most often receive. If you focus your observations on what you can't do and how you are not very good at doing it, your should not be surprised when this self-fulling prophesy comes true.
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Sometimes, when all our doubts, fears and insecurities wrap ourselves up, we always come up with the idea of “I wish I was somebody else.” More often than not, we think and believe that someone or rather, most people are better than us - when in reality, the fact is, most people are more scared than us.

You spot a totally eye-catching girl sitting by herself at a party, casually sipping on a glass of Asti Spumanti. You think to yourself, “she looks so perfectly calm and confident.”...