I'm full of BS - Are You?

by redfan
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Since I'm new here, I thought I would say a proper hi and hello, as I have already been totally wowed by this place and the ideas I've found here, and I do plan to be spending a substantial amount of time here.

My name is Joseph.

A bit of background about yours truly. I come from a tiny town in the Northern part of England, it's called Workington, which is an irony in itself because the town was hit hardest by the recessions and crashes of recent years. I come from a poor home, with a rubbish family and crappy background. I don't want sympathy, I'm long past those pathetic years.

I've lived all over the place, have met a myriad of amazing people, so I count myself lucky in that aspect. But, one thing I could never seem to get to grips with was the understanding of money. Making it. Spending it. Using it to make it. Spending it to make it. Buying to sell. Selling to buy. Saving. Being good with money was something I was never taught, nor would I have had any interest in it. I have what the docs call, borderline hyperactivity, which is to say, I have the attention span of a goldfish when it comes to trying to understand things that are necessary to survive in society.

Never had a lot of friends either. I was the tiny kid in school, who didn't have many social skills and I think there was just an edge to me, a fundamentally, niggling........"quality" is the wrong word, perhaps "aspect"? - to my character that most people generally couldn't identify with. This weirdness was with me all the way through a kaleidoscope of foster homes, schools, social situations and I guess I always felt like an outsider.

Growing up was a tough time. I couldn't decide on a career, because I wasn't really given any choices or options due to other negative influences in my life (which I won't bore you with right now). So I kinda just drifted outta school into the army. That lasted all of 12 weeks until I'd finally had enough. Then I went on a rampaging run through about 15 jobs while I tried to figure out what to do.

Now, I'm 32 years old, living in Hamburg and have a son, another baby on the way and a Fiancee who is my best, most trusted friend in all the world. I work as a language instructor at a large school, near where we live in Hamburg, Germany. It's finally dawned on me that life isn't all that bad, and hasn't been all that bad comparing myself to other less fortunate souls in the world. I went through life thinking I was full of BS. It's only since I turned to the internet marketing world and really started making a go of it that I realised I AM full of BS. That is, Being Successful.

Are you?

I look forward to meeting you all and working with you, and I hope in some way I can contribute a little to this community. I'm not a guru, or an expert, but I do what I can and just a little bit more. I've found that like Chris Daffy said: OK + 1 = WOW!
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  • Profile picture of the author Matthew Duggan
    Originally Posted by redfan View Post

    Since I'm new here... I'm not a guru, or an expert, but I do what I can and just a little bit more. I've found that like Chris Daffy said: OK + 1 = WOW!
    Welcome along Joseph. I joined recently and it's really moved my online marketing up a gear.

    And congratulations on a very good post title. Really hooked me in.

    Here's to being successful!
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  • Profile picture of the author JEL0221
    Originally Posted by redfan View Post

    Since I'm new here, I thought I would say a proper hi and hello, as I have already been totally wowed by this place and the ideas I've found here, and I do plan to be spending a substantial amount of time here.

    My name is Joseph.

    A bit of background about yours truly. I come from a tiny town in the Northern part of England, it's called Workington, which is an irony in itself because the town was hit hardest by the recessions and crashes of recent years. I come from a poor home, with a rubbish family and crappy background. I don't want sympathy, I'm long past those pathetic years.

    I've lived all over the place, have met a myriad of amazing people, so I count myself lucky in that aspect. But, one thing I could never seem to get to grips with was the understanding of money. Making it. Spending it. Using it to make it. Spending it to make it. Buying to sell. Selling to buy. Saving. Being good with money was something I was never taught, nor would I have had any interest in it. I have what the docs call, borderline hyperactivity, which is to say, I have the attention span of a goldfish when it comes to trying to understand things that are necessary to survive in society.

    Never had a lot of friends either. I was the tiny kid in school, who didn't have many social skills and I think there was just an edge to me, a fundamentally, niggling........"quality" is the wrong word, perhaps "aspect"? - to my character that most people generally couldn't identify with. This weirdness was with me all the way through a kaleidoscope of foster homes, schools, social situations and I guess I always felt like an outsider.

    Growing up was a tough time. I couldn't decide on a career, because I wasn't really given any choices or options due to other negative influences in my life (which I won't bore you with right now). So I kinda just drifted outta school into the army. That lasted all of 12 weeks until I'd finally had enough. Then I went on a rampaging run through about 15 jobs while I tried to figure out what to do.

    Now, I'm 32 years old, living in Hamburg and have a son, another baby on the way and a Fiancee who is my best, most trusted friend in all the world. I work as a language instructor at a large school, near where we live in Hamburg, Germany. It's finally dawned on me that life isn't all that bad, and hasn't been all that bad comparing myself to other less fortunate souls in the world. I went through life thinking I was full of BS. It's only since I turned to the internet marketing world and really started making a go of it that I realised I AM full of BS. That is, Being Successful.

    Are you?

    I look forward to meeting you all and working with you, and I hope in some way I can contribute a little to this community. I'm not a guru, or an expert, but I do what I can and just a little bit more. I've found that like Chris Daffy said: OK + 1 = WOW!
    Great inro and welcome to the forum. I am sure, in time, you will be able to contribute a lot as you will be learning a lot.

    My advice for starting in IM, and although I was told this upon entering the IM world but never let it sink into my brain, is to focus on one thing at a time.

    So many people burn through cash, buying different different products that promise quick riches, and then keep getting distracted with the "newest thing" and go on to that.

    Pick one method that interests you and work your tail off on it. Learn as much as you can and put in the hours of work.

    Doing this, it will be hard not being a BSer
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    • Profile picture of the author redfan
      Hi there Jel,

      Nice to meet you. I've already started learning, which is fantastic considering I've only been here a couple of hours or so. I believe that this game is a game where you are always learning, just for the fact that it can change over night. Once again, good to meet you

      Joseph
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  • Profile picture of the author cashcow
    Welcome redfan!

    Great post - if you write all your articles the way you wrote that post I think you will be quite successful.

    Lee
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    • Profile picture of the author redfan
      Hey Lee,

      Thanks and good to meet you! Hope I can share some BS with you and the others in the future

      Joseph
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  • Profile picture of the author badboy_Nick
    I like your post, very well written and inspiring.

    I'd say everyone in the world is a bit full of BS ... at least to some degree. But you need a little bit of that to make it in the world.

    Nice to meet you dude, and if you need any help, guidance or a few tips, don't hesitate to contact me

    Best,
    Nick
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    • Profile picture of the author redfan
      Hi Nick! Yeah I agree, we are all full of it And thanks, I'm sure I'll learn a thing or three from you.

      Joseph
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  • Profile picture of the author JayXtreme
    Welcome to the WF...

    I agree with Steve

    Jay
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    Bare Murkage.........

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    • Profile picture of the author redfan
      Good to meet you Jay. Like the sig

      "Alls I Need Is:

      5 Lines Of Text And A BUYNOW Button To Sell Sh1t!"

      nice lol
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      • Profile picture of the author JayXtreme
        Originally Posted by redfan View Post

        Good to meet you Jay. Like the sig

        "Alls I Need Is:

        5 Lines Of Text And A BUYNOW Button To Sell Sh1t!"

        nice lol


        Nice to "meet" you too... hope you get comfy and stick around, it's a great community to be a part of.

        Peace

        Jay
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    • Profile picture of the author Steven Wagenheim
      Originally Posted by JayXtreme View Post

      Welcome to the WF...

      I agree with Steve

      Jay
      That I'm overflowing with BS or that the thread was catchy?

      Never mind...don't answer that. :p
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  • Profile picture of the author Don Schenk
    Originally Posted by redfan View Post

    I have what the docs call, borderline hyperactivity, which is to say, I have the attention span of a goldfish when it comes to trying to understand things that are necessary to survive in society.
    Hey Joseph,

    Welcome to the WF. It's a great place with a large number of helpful people.

    Funny you should mention short attention span. There was a thread here just the other day about it. http://www.warriorforum.com/main-int...eK82MXhJPdqXBl

    Eventually you will want to "join" the War Room. It is an inexpensive lifetime (well okay 20 year) membership where warriors give away a lot of their info stuff to other warriors.

    Never feel stupid asking a question here. We all have had a lot of confusion in the beginning.

    :-Don
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  • Profile picture of the author Ellie Elle
    Nice post. : )

    Sometimes I wonder what the difference is between those who BS (become successful) and those who can't.

    Because those who can't are often as smart as those who can, sometimes even smarter. It's probably all about attitude. A BS attitude. ( Be smart, be strong, be sure, be sincere, believe in Success. Something like that. : )
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    • Profile picture of the author redfan
      Originally Posted by Ellie Elle View Post

      Nice post. : )

      Sometimes I wonder what the difference is between those who BS (become successful) and those who can't.

      Because those who can't are often as smart as those who can, sometimes even smarter. It's probably all about attitude. A BS attitude. ( Be smart, be strong, be sure, be sincere, believe in Success. Something like that. : )

      hi Ellie, like (Einstein?) said: If you think you can, you can. If you think you can't, you can't. And in both cases, you're absolutely right.
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  • Profile picture of the author MichaelHiles
    Great intro and happy to have you aboard!

    I'm just full of plain old fashioned B.S. in the original sense.
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    • Profile picture of the author redfan
      Originally Posted by MichaelHiles View Post

      Great intro and happy to have you aboard!

      I'm just full of plain old fashioned B.S. in the original sense.

      Good for you Michael lol

      Nice to meet you.

      Joseph
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  • Profile picture of the author helkay
    Hey Jay Welcome! I loved your post, fab headline!
    I'm full of something too......not quite sure if it's b.s. or wot!

    All the best, Helen
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    • Profile picture of the author redfan
      Originally Posted by helkay View Post

      Hey Jay Welcome! I loved your post, fab headline!
      I'm full of something too......not quite sure if it's b.s. or wot!

      All the best, Helen

      Hi Helen,

      Nice to meet you too!

      Joseph
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      • Profile picture of the author Richard Tunnah
        Hi Joseph,
        A fellow northerner here (originally from York). Remember some tough games of rugger against your lot as a game going kid.
        Anyway back on topic. Nice post and I'm sure you'll gather a lot of useful stuff from this forum.

        Rich
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        • Profile picture of the author redfan
          Originally Posted by Richard Tunnah View Post

          Hi Joseph,
          A fellow northerner here (originally from York). Remember some tough games of rugger against your lot as a game going kid.
          Anyway back on topic. Nice post and I'm sure you'll gather a lot of useful stuff from this forum.

          Rich
          Hi Rich

          Awesome to meet a fellow Northerner! Small(ish) world

          Joseph
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  • Profile picture of the author boastboy
    Wow, great post and great replies.

    As for short attention spans, I am all too familiar with that, I'm utterly ADD, and it's had it's consequences on my jobs. I have been fired from just about every job I've had and crashed my company 2 years ago and lost just about everything in the process, including my wife, I used to wholesale diamonds and tanzanites.

    I struggled for 2 years to find a job, it's tough being a 38 yr old white male in South Africa, though not as tough as it was for the blacks during apartheid I'm sure.

    I was introduced to IM last year with the 30 Day Challenge by Ed Dale, I have just done the Auto Content Cash course with Brian Johnson and am feeling incredibly positive about it, I haven't made any money yet but I'm pretty sure I will.

    Anyhoo... not quiet sure why I shared all of this, just did.

    Basically, good luck redfan, I know some of the challenges you have faced on your journey. I wish you all the best on your path to IM riches!
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    • Profile picture of the author redfan
      Originally Posted by boastboy View Post

      Wow, great post and great replies.

      As for short attention spans, I am all too familiar with that, I'm utterly ADD, and it's had it's consequences on my jobs. I have been fired from just about every job I've had and crashed my company 2 years ago and lost just about everything in the process, including my wife, I used to wholesale diamonds and tanzanites.

      I struggled for 2 years to find a job, it's tough being a 38 yr old white male in South Africa, though not as tough as it was for the blacks during apartheid I'm sure.

      I was introduced to IM last year with the 30 Day Challenge by Ed Dale, I have just done the Auto Content Cash course with Brian Johnson and am feeling incredibly positive about it, I haven't made any money yet but I'm pretty sure I will.

      Anyhoo... not quiet sure why I shared all of this, just did.

      Basically, good luck redfan, I know some of the challenges you have faced on your journey. I wish you all the best on your path to IM riches!

      Hi there Boastboy!

      You may not have made any money yet, but I bet you've learned some lessons along the way, which is half the battle won in my opinion. I'm not utterly ADD, but I'm close enough to really sympathise with anyone who is.

      Just remember we all go to the toilet in exactly the same way. Be you the president or the poor boy, you still have to stand to pee. Not sure why, but this has always helped me when things were tough.

      Good luck to you too, I'm sure you'll get to where you want to be, if you've managed to come this far and not give up

      Joseph
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  • Profile picture of the author aquablue
    Welcome, Joseph!

    Very inspiring post. This is a great community, many smart and generous people willing to share. I've learned tons here!
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    • Profile picture of the author redfan
      Hey Terese, thanks! Yup, I'm learning already, this place is a goldmine!
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