Face your Fear

17 years ago

this is somewhat true if you have a fear of your wrong doings or because you are being scold of because of your mistakes you need to face it and accept the fact that you are wrong be a man hehe this will improve you a lot.

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apple87jane

17 years ago

:Fear??? This word not in my dictionary.ha..

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HaydenR

17 years ago

That is very true.. overcoming fears is definitely a great way to create limitless opportunities.. but of course only a handful ever make it that far..

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Mark 2

17 years ago

Every one has his own fears, so do I...

I have tried to run away from them, but since I read some motivational books... "Run towards your fear" I literally saw the fears ran away...!!!

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acedalright

17 years ago

I had my fear for breakfast, sweated him out at the gym and then washed him of in a hot bath.

Happiness VS Fear

I'll take the first one please

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cheesy

17 years ago

I believe facing your fears can help you become stronger mentally, adn this can make your work better. It's just a matter of being strong enough to overcome the fear.

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dxFactor

17 years ago

Fear is just a sense that comes when you DON'T KNOW about what you will face. It's just a sign that you must learn something, whether learn how to handle the fear, or handle the object itself.

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Ticketbust

17 years ago

Fear can be a challenge, a problem, or life itself. In order to gain self respect you must engage yourself in these hindrance to be able to learn from it. To experience what it has to offer.

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Peace Of Mind

17 years ago

Fear is a psychological delusion created from the mind. It usually isn't based on reality at all but beliefs created from a past event. Th best way to eliminate fear is though action. Action stops fear dead in it's tracks.

For example: If your a man who has a fear or rejection. You too shy to make friends or even talk to an attractive female who may be sitting next to you. Just by opening your mouth an talking ends fear in its tracks. Doing so, build confidence, high self esteem, self liking and a positive mind set. Yet, if ones stays consumed by fear it can ruin their lives tremendously. One will feel insecure, irrational, and unattractive until the fear is conquered. Keep your mind focused on expecting the best as you being to conquer your fears. Never give into thoughts of negativity, because it can become destructive.

What fears have you guys conquered so far in your life?

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edmltw

17 years ago

Fear is all but a scam that looks scary. Look beyond fear and find sanity.

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Drew_MX

17 years ago

ageed. very true

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Christopher Grant

17 years ago

Definitely true. Because fears are just in mind.

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17 years ago

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edmltw

17 years ago

"Discipline strengthens the mind so that it becomes impervious to the corroding influence of fear."

Few men are born brave. Many become so through training and force of discipline.

Regards,
Edmund

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Dankova

17 years ago

Fear is a feeling that too often runs our lives. Whether it is fear of commitment, rejection, failure, death, flying, or any other phobia, it tends to keep us from living our lives to the fullest. Fear can be handled rationally and can be controlled if you are willing to work on it and are motivated enough in controlling it, instead of it controlling you.
Face your fear and Take control !

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cre8gr8things

17 years ago

Thank you for the post.

I am new to this forum, and thought IM was instant messaging until a few days ago. I'm reading A LOT, and there seem to be several ways to learn/buy/acquire the tools to make money here.

There are SO MANY tools I find myself afraid to "jump in". Ultimately I'm more afraid of doing nothing, and coming back in 6 months to learn that other new people (like me) are comfortably making 2-3k each month.

No better time than the present.

Many thanks again for the post,
~Maia

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manadospace 17 years ago

Fear :

People living on peacefully country maybe never know real FEAR

but

People living on war country maybe they are very really know what this mean "FEAR"
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- usmanshakir 17 years ago
  
  Yes facing the fear is best way to increase self confidence.
  On the other hand, the people who do not have confidence on themselves, they never have confidence.
  And really its hard for them to leave their habbit.
  
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cconlan

17 years ago

It's a great way to achieve personal growth. Just throw yourself into situations that you wouldn't usually feel comfortable with. Do something new. I'd love to try jumping in a cage and checking out some great whites. That would be pretty scary seeing as this can happen..........

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mark z

17 years ago

I agree with you Jack.

Interesting how very few people even want to face their fears and overcome them.

Wise statesman James Francis Byrnes said:
"Too many people are thinking of security instead of opportunity.
They seem to be more afraid of life than death."
Something to think about.

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loenex

17 years ago

I have a phobia with animals having feathers like chicken. I'm afraid to hold them or be near them. I'll just encourage myself that all things gonna be alright and they couldn't hurt me. then, it works. I finally able to be near them. It's all on the state of mind. All people can face their own fears.

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free2rock

17 years ago

Holy s...., I don't want to face my fear anymore!!!

Shark fear is much bigger than fear of failure

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Mari Raven

17 years ago

Fears will ruin our lives, but how to face or get rid of your fear is really complecated.

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Elleran

17 years ago

Elleran
Don't be afraid!!
Fear is born of the unknown?
Learn to love & trust yourself & "Fear"
as we know it will be "OBLITERATED"

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stuwestbury

17 years ago

Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate. Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure.

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newarke 17 years ago

Your fears appear when you step outside of your 'comfort zone.' Knowing how to stretch your comfort zone is the first step in overcoming your fears.

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luismoss

14 years ago

great video post...

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Shilpa

14 years ago

Really true and great post. Fear is only in our mind we should overcome it!

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michaelcook2003 14 years ago

All of us have fears and we need to get over them. Running away from your fears don't make them go away, that just makes them bigger than ever. Fears usually come down to insecurity and uncertainty of something. Before we can face them, you need to learn more about what makes you fearful of these situations. It could be from a past experience.
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Roan

14 years ago

We spend so much time on fearing something! Great post. It will defintely make you feel awesome when you have faced a fear and have overcome it!

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filthy

14 years ago

I fear sometimes in my dreams but after awaken i forget the reason of fear.

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RHert

14 years ago

FEAR

False
Evidence
Appearing
Real

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John Ruddy

14 years ago

Thats true, Face your fear it will go away or let it follow you for your whole life. Choice is your

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Saito

14 years ago

I credit socialization with most of our fears. Fear of mistakes, failure, uncertainty...a lot of it comes from being scolded as a kid for making a mess, or being conditioned in school to have the BEST G.P.A. you can have. Think about it...12 years of being penalized for making mistakes on a paper, regardless of if you learned from the mistake or not. We value perfection and external achievement a little too much in the West.

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paul_1

14 years ago

Fear in itself is a negative energy. We need to release ourselves with negative energies including fear. Fear holds us back in finding our true potentials. Until we let go or until we conquer our fears, we will be confined to being a mediocre. Facing fear will release our full potential and the best that we can get from ourselves.

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Boxer123

14 years ago

Great Quote RHert, fear can be good, it can keep you motivated.

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howimakemony

14 years ago

I agree. Fear can lock you down and stop you from getting where you are headed

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taylatrefl

14 years ago

It is always a great feeling when you did overcome your fear, you can see clearly what more you can do.

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jhuman 14 years ago

Fear does not exist. It is only an illusion of how we interpret bad things that happen to us.

The more you think about fear, the more powerful it becomes in your own mind.

Best way to unveil the illusion is to have an intense focus on it and take a deep breath, hold it in until you can't hold it any more, then release it. Then inhale and breath it out again. e.g. public speaking, most people have this fear. Practice the breathing technique when you are preparing your speech and try it at the next toastmasters meeting.
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tubes00

14 years ago

I think Cus D'amato (Tyson's old trainer) said it best, "The hero and the coward both feel the same thing, but the hero uses his fear, projects it onto his opponent, while the coward runs. It's the same thing, fear, but it's what you do with it that matters"

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Aesop87 14 years ago

I disagree with the sentiment that fear is an illusion or an enemy. Fear is a perfectly healthy phenomenon -- it's utterly irrational, but so are all emotions. Fear tells us when to run away, when the sabertooth tiger is just a little too much for us to take on.

Even more importantly, fear (like any emotion) is an excellent feedback mechanism. When we identify an element of fear, especially one that is acting as an obstacle, we have two choices: the rational and the irrational. The rational mind examines and picks apart the fear: "What is the root of this fear?" "Is this fear a valid one? If yes, why? If no, how to I circumvent it?" The irrational response would be to simply shut down and ignore the fear, to assume the validity of the emotion before investigating it.

This is why "face your fear" is an accurate way of thinking about it. Fear is perfectly natural and healthy, not something that we need to "get rid of" as some might argue. It is not healthy to ignore fear and leave it unresolved; this only serves to hem you in and shrink your world of possibilities.
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jackhundley

14 years ago

totally agree on this...

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inyah11

14 years ago

It's amazing how people with far more obstacles than us have moved past their fear such as my friend Extreme Mike in a wheel chair and have done things we only dream about including sky dive and scuba dive after facing the fear of crashing or not being able to swim. Watch his jump! https://bitly.com/tx06Zb <3Ruth

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OO

14 years ago

Yes as long as you learn to deal with fear, that is good enough, you don't have to get rid of it or overcome it completely IMO.

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WakondaMarketing

14 years ago

The only thing I fear as of lately is losing my life. If that happens then everything else fails. If I do fail my IM ventures, I'll go on with my life.

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hommedespoir

14 years ago

Originally Posted by WakondaMarketing

The only thing I fear as of lately is losing my life. If that happens then everything else fails. If I do fail my IM ventures, I'll go on with my life.

I can handle life... my fear is that so few of US
realise the extortionate extent to which our
beloved leaders are lying through their false teeth,
and committing treason with gay abandon every day
of their boring lives in DC.

Every one of Them knows full well about
the 9/11 Insider Job in which their corporate friends
were intimately complicit. They MUST know about
the BP Macondo Crime.... but I'm stopping right there...
and switching my long List-Building efforts back to IM

Hope the self-evident truth lurking (none-too-obviously
for some warriors for sure) in this diatribe qualifies
as my post #12 towards the 15 that hopefully
licenses me to fly solo after a mere 4 years
on the wonderful warrior website.

MikeR

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emmndi 14 years ago

Fear is a main problem to a majority of us. It is very parmount that each one learns on how to face their own fears. That becomes the begining of your journey to concering your fears.
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sofia25433

14 years ago

Fears are something we all endure. You have to face your fears, to master them. That's easier said than done. Flying the coop doesn• t make them vanish, that simply makes them larger than ever. So that itself ought to make it worthwhile to be real, get it over with.

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weekendmarketer

14 years ago

It is not the obstacle but the fear of obstacle that holds us back

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sofiawrigley

14 years ago

Never be afraid to face your fear, it can lead to the discovery of your true potentials.

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hireava

14 years ago

Originally Posted by Jack Chua

In order to excel and improve oneself it is advisable to know and accept your fears and to face them. Sometimes overcoming our fears is the only way to other opportunities to make our lives better and succeed.

I totally agree with you Jack. Facing your fear means opening and allowing a lot of opportunities which will also lead us to success.

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GT

14 years ago

Originally Posted by Jack Chua

In order to excel and improve oneself it is advisable to know and accept your fears and to face them. Sometimes overcoming our fears is the only way to other opportunities to make our lives better and succeed.

I so much agree with this and have experienced it many times. I don't think we can ever get rid of fear entirely, but we can learn to control it through practice. And every time we face up to a fear, get control of it and move past it, we grow stronger and more confident in our ability to become a master of fear the next time it rears its ugly head!

GT

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Jim Guererro

14 years ago

Jack,

It's so true that once we overcome our fears, our lives can be totally transformed. What if my product isn't good enough? What if they don't like me as a person? What if I don't have enough time to finish my project? I even made up a lot more fears that seem so inconsequential now, I don't even know why they were roadblocks in my life.

But now, I am who I am and happy about it. Let's just get over it and start living life.

Jim

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RobbieT

14 years ago

Hi Jack,

As I have stated on this forum before there are a couple of good sayings.

"Feel the fear and do it anyway"
&
"Face your fears! They are all that stand between you and what you want"

Take good care of those that you love.

Robbie T

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Daniel Evans 14 years ago

Susans Jeffers - Feel the Fear and Do it Anyway is a great read.

It covers everything about facing your fears and appreciating them for potential for self expansion.

Daniel
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AppsFromHome

14 years ago

Thanks for the recommendation Daniel!

If you are in IM, you should have a feeling of "fear" everyday....

You should always be expanding your reach, testing new services, and taking things to the next level....

True growth is experienced through the fear of the unknown....I love it and hate it. But like others have said, you need to embrace it!

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Tom Shat

14 years ago

Yes Jack.Fear of not doing the don'ts of life is good.But problem arises when we fear to do the do's of life.It happens out of nervousness but fear goes when one faces it instead of running away from it.

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blackbelt

14 years ago

I have fears. I just don't know what they are yet?

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