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Hey everyone,

If you want to succeed in online ( I am sure that all your WARRIORS DO), you have got to get rid of these attitude sins below. You will want to flush them out as fast as possible and replace them with positive ones.

Here is a small list of the attitude sins that you will want to avoid:

1. Are you a pessimist?

When you say to yourself "This is a challenge and I am not sure if it will work for me", you create a road block that will not let you go through to the next level of success. Instead of being negative say something like "This is a challenge and I am positive that I can over come it".

2. Do you put things off?

If you put things off you will probably never get anything done. Instead of saying "I will do that later when I have time", say "I will do it now and that's it". People, when they think about starting their own Internet business , will always talk about doing this and that but never get anything done.

If you have an idea, don't just think and talk about it. Take action and do something. If you find an opportunity that you think will work for you, take action today. Even if it is small steps, get something going. Don't just think about it. Do it.

3. Are you just plain Lazy?

I know a lot of people who wanted to make money online. They were willing to join a program and they looked forward to making some great money. When they realized that they need to put in the effort and work, they instantly bashed the program and told all their friends and family that the program is no good and you can't make money online. They wanted to make money without putting any effort it.

If you want to succeed in any business, you have got to do the work each day.

4. Leave your comfort zone.

If you want to accomplish something that will need to you leave your comfort zone, then do that. It may be hard for you to change yourself and your attitude but you have got to do it. Change is always a good thing. You will basically need to adapt yourself into a specific situation in order to achieve what you want to achieve. You may also need to change your bad habits.

5. Do you lack courage?

A person who lacks courage is not capable of moving forward. If you are scared out of your mind to take the necessary actions to make your work at home opportunity a success, you are really limiting yourself in many ways.

You have got to take the necessary risks if you want to make it.

6. Do you lack of self-confidence?

It is very true that if you want to succeed in business, you have got to be confident. When you are confident, you can reach your goals, your income desires, and you can take what ever action you need to take. Being confident always gives you great ideas on how to make your business a success.

If you do lack self confidence and want to change, it would be a good idea to read and listen to motivational tapes.

Tal
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  • Profile picture of the author TLTheLiberator
    You can add a very deadly business model to the list.

    It's a business model that has claimed the hopes and dreams of millions of would be marketers and has a horrible record for success.

    Can anyone guess what it is???

    TL
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    • Profile picture of the author Karen Blundell
      Originally Posted by TLTheLiberator View Post

      You can add a very deadly business model to the list.

      It's a business model that has claimed the hopes and dreams of millions of would be marketers and has a horrible record for success.

      Can anyone guess what it is???

      TL
      is it MLM?
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      Originally Posted by TLTheLiberator View Post

      You can add a very deadly business model to the list.

      It's a business model that has claimed the hopes and dreams of millions of would be marketers and has a horrible record for success.

      Can anyone guess what it is???

      TL
      Hey man, you going to leave us in suspense, or what?

      My heart's all a flutter waiting on your response.
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        Originally Posted by Adam Kenzington View Post

        Hey man, you going to leave us in suspense, or what?

        My heart's all a flutter waiting on your response.

        Me says it's the money game or pyramid scheme
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      Originally Posted by TLTheLiberator View Post

      You can add a very deadly business model to the list.

      It's a business model that has claimed the hopes and dreams of millions of would be marketers and has a horrible record for success.

      Can anyone guess what it is???

      TL
      Internet Marketing?
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  • Profile picture of the author Devin T
    Um talfighel..

    Are those not tips on how to be successful in any aspect of life? Ha
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  • Profile picture of the author Nathan Hangen
    Good list...being positive and unwavering is crucial to success. You have to be prepared for the backlash of people that want you to fail and those that don't believe in you.
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    Hey great value here in your post! Do keep up the excellent work!!

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  • Profile picture of the author crumblepie
    Yikes, I answered yes to all those questions!
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    Thanks for the excelent tips.
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    You are absolutely right, spell my thoughts! Thanks for great information!
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    Hi Tal,

    Insightful post you got there. Thanks for sharing them. No. 2 I always put things off - this is probably my biggest problem. Will need to work on that.
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    Is MLM still as big as it was 20 years ago. What are some of the top companies today?
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  • Profile picture of the author jeffbaas
    I'll add to the list two things:

    Being content merely to dream--This ties in somewhat with being unwilling to leave your comfort zone, but I think there's more to it than that. It's easy to get excited over the destination you want to arrive at. It's something entirely different to plot out your route to that goal and then to be persistent in traveling it.

    Being unfocused--If you're constantly jumping around from one thing to another, you'll never get anything done. Success does not come from having the greatest number of plates spinning.
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    • Profile picture of the author Karen Connell
      Originally Posted by jeffbaas View Post

      I'll add to the list two things:

      Being content merely to dream--This ties in somewhat with being unwilling to leave your comfort zone, but I think there's more to it than that. It's easy to get excited over the destination you want to arrive at. It's something entirely different to plot out your route to that goal and then to be persistent in traveling it.

      Being unfocused--If you're constantly jumping around from one thing to another, you'll never get anything done. Success does not come from having the greatest number of plates spinning.
      That sums me up perfectly at the moment - but I'm working on it!

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    I'd say the old me would most likely be answering yes to all of these questions, but thanks to some factors, I've been improving myself for the past years. Thanks for sharing these...
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  • Profile picture of the author warrenhw
    This is a great topic. Low confidence, pessimism and lack of courage are all a reflection of self limiting beliefs which I believe are the most dangerous things of all.

    If I don't really believe I deserve to be successful, or that I can't really have something, or that it won't work for me ... well then I've set myself up for all of those things to be true.
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  • Profile picture of the author SusanPreston
    Originally Posted by talfighel View Post

    Hey everyone,

    If you want to succeed in online ( I am sure that all your WARRIORS DO), you have got to get rid of these attitude sins below. You will want to flush them out as fast as possible and replace them with positive ones.

    Here is a small list of the attitude sins that you will want to avoid:

    1. Are you a pessimist?

    When you say to yourself "This is a challenge and I am not sure if it will work for me", you create a road block that will not let you go through to the next level of success. Instead of being negative say something like "This is a challenge and I am positive that I can over come it".



    2. Do you put things off?

    If you put things off you will probably never get anything done. Instead of saying "I will do that later when I have time", say "I will do it now and that's it". People, when they think about starting their own Internet business , will always talk about doing this and that but never get anything done.

    If you have an idea, don't just think and talk about it. Take action and do something. If you find an opportunity that you think will work for you, take action today. Even if it is small steps, get something going. Don't just think about it. Do it.

    3. Are you just plain Lazy?

    I know a lot of people who wanted to make money online. They were willing to join a program and they looked forward to making some great money. When they realized that they need to put in the effort and work, they instantly bashed the program and told all their friends and family that the program is no good and you can't make money online. They wanted to make money without putting any effort it.

    If you want to succeed in any business, you have got to do the work each day.

    4. Leave your comfort zone.

    If you want to accomplish something that will need to you leave your comfort zone, then do that. It may be hard for you to change yourself and your attitude but you have got to do it. Change is always a good thing. You will basically need to adapt yourself into a specific situation in order to achieve what you want to achieve. You may also need to change your bad habits.

    5. Do you lack courage?

    A person who lacks courage is not capable of moving forward. If you are scared out of your mind to take the necessary actions to make your work at home opportunity a success, you are really limiting yourself in many ways.

    You have got to take the necessary risks if you want to make it.

    6. Do you lack of self-confidence?

    It is very true that if you want to succeed in business, you have got to be confident. When you are confident, you can reach your goals, your income desires, and you can take what ever action you need to take. Being confident always gives you great ideas on how to make your business a success.

    If you do lack self confidence and want to change, it would be a good idea to read and listen to motivational tapes.

    Tal
    Hi Tal,

    Great post, thank you! I agree with you. I will add, that knowing you can do whatever you put your mind to no matter what is a key factor, also. Then guess what? You WILL!
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    • Profile picture of the author TajwarAlexander
      Seriously, as cliche as this sounds this post has the basics of success in all its glory listed.

      It really isn't hard. It just takes work.

      Great post. Maybe it will inspire someone.



      Originally Posted by SusanPreston View Post

      Hi Tal,

      Great post, thank you! I agree with you. I will add, that knowing you can do whatever you put your mind to no matter what is a key factor, also. Then guess what? You WILL!
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  • Profile picture of the author Habitat
    Great post. Hard work got me as far/short as I am today..And I'm working harder, reading more and learning a lot on this forum...A lot better than its competitors.
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  • Profile picture of the author Trandanos
    Very true.

    I think leaving your comfort zone is a huge one. I know this is something I have struggled with. But if you can find the courage to step out of it you might be surprised at what you can achieve.
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  • Profile picture of the author Li Weng
    Hey, very good list. It's a nice summary of the important factors that play in your success.
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    Thanks for that tips, very helpful.
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    • Profile picture of the author VeraRaposo
      So many times we let road blocks and negative thoughts stop us from doing what we truly want to be doing.

      You can not succeed in a business if you think this way. You have to be positive and when you hit that small little speed bump or road block you have to just keep on going.

      To succeed in an online business is not just putting up a website and you start making money. You have to be willing to put in a lot of elbow grease, hard work and some long hours but in the end there is light at the end of the tunnel and you will see if you stick with it, it is all worth it.

      Great Post. Definitely something to print off and keep in sight next time you start working on a project.

      Vera
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  • being positive it's a good stuff, some times happens when there is no interest or some of marketers lose their confidence,,, we need to keep going and working on our ideas daily ,,, sometimes is hard mrrrr,, but this is life,,
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    A challenge can also be considered an "opportunity" -- what solution can I create for this issue. It is amazing how creative we can be.

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  • Profile picture of the author chastill
    Confidence and self-esteem are in my opinion the most important.
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      Great post! Thanks
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      • Profile picture of the author Delta423
        Thanks for the advice talfighel. I am a optimistic person and new to the business and threads like this help me keep a thumb up while I'm on this new road to success.

        Delta
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    I would definitely add Focus and Get A Mentor for success!
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  • Profile picture of the author jcisme
    Originally Posted by talfighel View Post

    Hey everyone,

    If you want to succeed in online ( I am sure that all your WARRIORS DO), you have got to get rid of these attitude sins below. You will want to flush them out as fast as possible and replace them with positive ones.

    Here is a small list of the attitude sins that you will want to avoid:

    1. Are you a pessimist?

    When you say to yourself "This is a challenge and I am not sure if it will work for me", you create a road block that will not let you go through to the next level of success. Instead of being negative say something like "This is a challenge and I am positive that I can over come it".

    2. Do you put things off?

    If you put things off you will probably never get anything done. Instead of saying "I will do that later when I have time", say "I will do it now and that's it". People, when they think about starting their own Internet business , will always talk about doing this and that but never get anything done.

    If you have an idea, don't just think and talk about it. Take action and do something. If you find an opportunity that you think will work for you, take action today. Even if it is small steps, get something going. Don't just think about it. Do it.

    3. Are you just plain Lazy?

    I know a lot of people who wanted to make money online. They were willing to join a program and they looked forward to making some great money. When they realized that they need to put in the effort and work, they instantly bashed the program and told all their friends and family that the program is no good and you can't make money online. They wanted to make money without putting any effort it.

    If you want to succeed in any business, you have got to do the work each day.

    4. Leave your comfort zone.

    If you want to accomplish something that will need to you leave your comfort zone, then do that. It may be hard for you to change yourself and your attitude but you have got to do it. Change is always a good thing. You will basically need to adapt yourself into a specific situation in order to achieve what you want to achieve. You may also need to change your bad habits.

    5. Do you lack courage?

    A person who lacks courage is not capable of moving forward. If you are scared out of your mind to take the necessary actions to make your work at home opportunity a success, you are really limiting yourself in many ways.

    You have got to take the necessary risks if you want to make it.

    6. Do you lack of self-confidence?

    It is very true that if you want to succeed in business, you have got to be confident. When you are confident, you can reach your goals, your income desires, and you can take what ever action you need to take. Being confident always gives you great ideas on how to make your business a success.

    If you do lack self confidence and want to change, it would be a good idea to read and listen to motivational tapes.

    Tal
    A really good discussion but how about this? Even if you are pessimistic, lacking in self-confidence, not very courages, and lazy, you go ahead and force yourself to do it anyway. Go ahead grumble and gripe through every moment, but do it anyway. Just go ahead and accept that you've got a bad attitude but, no matter, do it anyway.

    Where is it written that you can't succeed even if you do have a sucky attitude?
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  • Profile picture of the author MemberWing
    Great tips.
    Just like diet tips: they sounds right, reads well and may even work for a while.
    But then you are back to your "normal weight"+.

    Anyone knows why?

    Gleb
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    • Profile picture of the author jcisme
      I know why! Does that help?

      Kidding aside its because the old habits, behaviors are ingrained, hard wired into our brains, and unless you find a way to deal with those the brain circuits fire off with some unconscious trigger. A classic example for weight loss is Oprah. For all her money and influence she couldn't keep her weight off. Personal trainers, personal chefs, dieticians, doctors, psychologists, psychiatrists, etc., and she is back where she started.

      The same ingrained behaviors will affect all areas of our lives unless one finds a methodology to overcome them. This is an area where neuroscience has made some progress but the methodology is not quiet there because the theories, followed by the research on those theories are way to complex.
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  • Profile picture of the author MemberWing
    Bingo!
    Here goes the next question:
    - What's the best methodology to eliminate subconscious blocks?

    Gleb
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    • Profile picture of the author jcisme
      Originally Posted by MemberWing View Post

      Bingo!
      Here goes the next question:
      - What's the best methodology to eliminate subconscious blocks?

      Gleb
      You would ask me that wouldn't you . Let me take a wild guess, I'm thinking that you have or are working on a weight loss methodology for eliminating subconscious blocks. If I'm right PM me and we can discuss further because so am I.

      Something I wouldn't even be doing if I hadn't been driven into a virtual rage by **** berry spammer and Dr. Amen of the full-of-crock, SPECTRE machine, credentials, and PBS self promoting, self indulgent hours of infomercial for his clinic. So disappointed with PBS I could spit.

      Anyway here's my answer for now; metaphor, story telling, a trance state, optimally 5 to 8 cycle theta, repetition, and a simple cortical pathways, neuroscience procedure. Mix, stir, and boil down to an 8-step technique that the brain gets first time out because it bypasses resistance. Said another way it sneaks past the barriers and takes up permanent residence because new neuro pathways are formed. Repeat then take the 8 steps down to 3, then 1 that becomes second nature.

      The procedure is so easy I could explain it in 20 minutes or with illustration 4 pages.....but then who would buy it? So if I'm understanding marketing properly nobody is going to want to purchase 4 pages so I'd better, at least, stretch it to 20 Oh well I have enough filler information to do that otherwise what's the use of sharing the information if people aren't motivated to want it? I know a lot about a lot, or so my degrees say, but marketing is a completely new thing for me.
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      Originally Posted by MemberWing View Post

      Bingo!
      Here goes the next question:
      - What's the best methodology to eliminate subconscious blocks?

      Gleb
      Start with this - EFT -www.emofree.com
      Then add this - TAT - www.tatlife.com
      Then complete it with this - Zpoint - www.zpointforpeace.com or www.zpointprocess.com

      Each of these are massively helpful in ridding subconscious blocks quickly, easily, and comfortably.

      (I've had incredible success with all of them. Feel free to PM me if you have more detailed questions.)

      - Paul
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  • Profile picture of the author GrowthMastery
    Avoid stinkin thinkin negative thought. Also mediation clears the mind. I do two 20 minute sessions each day.
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  • Profile picture of the author MemberWing
    Wow, so many hi-tech words! My passion for trances and thetas ended about 8 yrs ago.

    My findings:
    1. If it works at all it should work for everything (including diets and money).
    2. If it's complicated or requires electronic devices - it doesn't work (sorry, science).

    I my quest to find the holy grail I was looking for resumes of people who:
    - raised themselves out of deathbed or deep misery to complete health, happiness, prosperity and full self-realization.
    - preferably with north american background.
    - preferably living or lived somewhere close to 20-21 century.
    - Gurus who experienced sudden unexplained enlightenments need not apply. They're indeed happy folks with bright eyes and fun to read, but I almost fried my brain following one's advise. I need something simple, verifiable and step-by-step reproducible by me and by the other guy too that would work in this lifetime.
    - Gurus who lived 2000 years ago need not apply. Cannot run for long without pants in the forests these days.
    - Gurus who speak "high words" with little practical application value need not apply. I already know that i am "unlimited being". What next?

    I am sucker for impressive quests done by regular folks who pulled themselves out of misery to highest heights. Love them.

    Apparently I found only one.

    Would love to add to this list - I might missed a few!
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    • Profile picture of the author jcisme
      [quote=MemberWing;679654]Wow, so many hi-tech words! My passion for trances and thetas ended about 8 yrs ago.

      My findings:
      1. If it works at all it should work for everything (including diets and money). Agreed
      2. If it's complicated or requires electronic devices - it doesn't work (sorry, science). Absolutely true

      But as I said, after the initial practice, the procedure I do finally goes down to 1 step that takes all of 3 seconds to perform. If you find something simplier let me know becuase I'm rather sure it doesn't exist. Has it been tested for weight loss? Yes on myself, I've had a wieght problem all my life until I developed this and I've been slim and trim ever since. My daughter in law, she thought it was so simple it wouldn't work, she was proven wrong. My neighboor who encouraged me to write about it. Verious clients who were not seeing me for weight loss. They actually had requested I do a Past Life Regression procedure on them, they had seen the Oprah show on PLT and wanted to try it for their issues. Just as an aside there were some fascinating result with PLR. I give them this technique.....well, never mind. I'm not talking about it anymore until the ebiook is finished.

      Anyway what are people supposed to be applying for. You're searching for a weight loss program for yourself? There is, of course, a part of my methodology....its the essence of it....the secret, if you will, that I'm not telling. However, its essential element is tying the mind/body connections into the one step.

      What do you mean you got over trance states 8 years aog? You ,as all of us, go into trance state on any given day. So how can you get over something that you do anjyway?

      Since I fear I've gone off topic here it's enough of this conversation so if you want to discuss further let's make it private, otherwise I enjoyed the chat.
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      [quote=MemberWing;679654]Wow, so many hi-tech words! My passion for trances and thetas ended about 8 yrs ago.


      Gleb wanted to thank you personally for your post. After thinking about what you wrote I returned and looked over my sales and landing page and changed all my hi-tech words. Actually also reviewed my ebook, which I'm about half way done with, and made a bunch of changes to iti also. They are so much the better for it. Had it not been for your post I wouldn't have done it. Thanks again.
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    Hi talfighel,

    Some people are lazy to take action and even though they had spent tons of money on products created by the gurus, they can't make it work because they did not take action to create the results. In order to achieve success, we need to take consistent action.

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    Looks like you covered it quite nicely...
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  • Profile picture of the author MemberWing
    Hi Julia, i'd be interested to look on your sales page before/after.
    I hope it will make you lots of sales!


    Gleb
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    • Profile picture of the author try2x
      some good points, thanks!
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    Thanks for the tips!
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  • Profile picture of the author Doug Miller
    Great tips..
    When going to do something new, I always ask myself one question...
    What is the worst thing that can possibly happen?
    If you can live with the answer to that question, then do it!
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  • Profile picture of the author 7figurehelper
    I would add don't buy all these "programs or offers" impulsively and stay focused.

    Those little foxes are deadly to our success.
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  • Profile picture of the author yosis
    These are good questions that forces us to really take a good look at ourselves. I've given up too by not avoiding some of these questions!
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  • Profile picture of the author adaliabarclay
    Great post i really like the point you mention in article
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  • Profile picture of the author ricaparaleho
    Here are ten things you should avoid to find happiness in life:

    1. Trying to please everybody
    2. Being greedy
    3. Being jealous
    4. Not forgiving
    5. Neglecting your passions
    6. Being opportunistic
    7. Only thinking about yourself
    8. Ignoring your conscience
    9. Being idle
    10. Not accepting yourself
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