I was watching this silly movie called "How do you know" with my gf ... and it was interesting that in some part the girl goes to a psycanalist or something like that..(she just had passed by a hard situation)... but before it starts the session she says to the guy that she can't do it. Before to leave she asks him something like "In all these years working with people..did you find out if there is anything that generically works in all the generic cases for generic people"? He answers "It's a good question. Yes. Find out what you want and learn how to ask for it".
I found it very interesting and very related to books I have been reading and so I decided to share with the guys here.
Ps: Even though there was this good part in the movie I can't say i recommend it hehe
#helps