The 5 Biggest Mistakes That Robbed Me of Success

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Hey All,
I wanted to write this post and share with everyone the biggest mistakes I have made because I'm almost positive that many others have done them as well. I believe that the faster we can recognize our mistakes the faster we can succeed.

Mistake #1: Didn't Take Action

This is by far the biggest mistake I have ever made, I have been studying internet marketing for the better part of 7 years now and only actually have had success for the last 2. So for 5 entire years I did nothing but buy product after product and daydream.
  • **Action Step**: Do something productive in your business everyday! start by creating a piece of content daily, write an article, make a video ect ect. For instance this post right here, I don't know if anyone will read it or if anyone will find any value in it but I'm writing it anyway to train myself to be productive and take action every single day, not only that but I really do hope that it will help some of those who read it. Make a time slot in your day to be productive in your business and stick to it with no exceptions.
Mistake #2: Didn't Believe in Myself

This actually went hand in hand with me not taking action. I didn't believe in myself or my dream, I never thought any content I created would be interesting enough for people to want to read and I also didn't think any of my knowledge was good enough to help anyone else.
  • **Action Step**: Plain and simple STOP thinking that way!!!! we all have been through different experiences in life and what you may not think is helpful could actually help change other peoples lives. In my case I didn't think I could help anyone make money online because I wasn't pulling in the numbers like the guru's but in reality only 5% of internet Marketers or something like that actually make consistent money online and I fall into that category. And on top of that I actually make money online in a very tiny obscure niche of which I knew absolutley nothing about. Along the way I have learned alot from my experiences and I believe that my experiences and knowledge can infact help others and I hope it does.
Mistake #3: Was Seeking Perfection

This mistake here also went hand in hand with the others, I was to busy being a perfectionist and any action that I did take ended up in the trash bin because it wasn't perfect. My very first clickbank product literally took me over a year to finish because i did nothing but analyze, tweak and critique it when in reality should have been done in a week.
  • **Action Sep**: Stop seeking perfection, take action, get it online and tweak from there.
Mistake #4: My Mind Wasn't Ready For Success

It was way easier to read fancy sales page after sales page and live vicariously through my daydreams of wealth and success. It was a drug to me, I would read a salespage promising riches by the morning and I would go into this daydream mode and think about how great life would be living my dreams and soon feel good endorphines filled my body and mind, then I would purchase the product see that it wasn't what I expected or wanted to believe and crash, the high was quickly gone and I was soon scouring the forums and internet for my next feel good fix. This went on and on until finally I got my mind right.
  • **Action Step**: The dream is real however know that it takes hard work, determination and consistency to achieve. And it won't happen overnight, but the journey is worth it, embrace the struggle. If you put in the work your dreams will surely follow.
Mistake #5: Focused on The Money

This is my proudest obstacle that I have overcome. In the past everything I did was money oriented, I focused on the money first and the people second. Today money really doesn't mean much to me and helping people has become everything. I believe that if you truly and sincerely want and try to help people then the money will follow.
  • **Action Step**: Money isn't everything and really in my opinion it should be the last thing you think of. Focus on truly helping others and the money will flow to you.
So these were my 5 biggest mistakes that continually robbed me of success, I wanted to share them with you to hopefully help anyone who is also experiencing them overcome them. So just to summarize,
  1. BELIEVE IN YOURSELF
  2. GET YOUR MIND READY FOR SUCCESS
  3. TAKE ACTION EVERY SINGLE DAY
  4. STOP SEEKING PERFECTION
  5. HELP PEOPLE FIRST AND FOREMOST
I hope you enjoyed reading this and hope it inspired you and please feel free to post your comments especially if you have any mistakes of your own that you would like to share or if you have any questions at all please ask.

Thanks for taking the time to read this!
To your success,
-Chris
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  • Profile picture of the author mikaroee
    You're in my head! I can relate to every single one of those. I don't feel like I've overcome them all yet.
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    • Profile picture of the author mogulmap
      Originally Posted by mikaroee View Post

      You're in my head! I can relate to every single one of those. I don't feel like I've overcome them all yet.
      LOL no worries your not alone mikaroee, these are the parasites that feed on all of us IM'ers. We are our own enemies, in my opinion mindframe is more important then any tip, trick, technique or strategy you can ever learn. What good is all that stuff if you never take action on any of it. You keep working on it and you will soon be in full control! keep up the good work and feel free to hit me up any time.
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      • Profile picture of the author bt
        Good post mogulmap, I like #3 of your post. Perfection can really slow you down and can cripple you from getting started In IM. Just get your products out there and correct any minor mistakes you have made as you go along.
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        • Profile picture of the author mogulmap
          Originally Posted by bt View Post

          Good post mogulmap, I like #3 of your post. Perfection can really slow you down and can cripple you from getting started In IM. Just get your products out there and correct any minor mistakes you have made as you go along.
          I totally agree bt, perfectionism can seriously hinder your success and keep people from moving ahead. For example even in this post there are a bunch of misspellings and grammer mistakes but even with all that the message I wanted to get across is clear.
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          Originally Posted by bt View Post

          Good post mogulmap, I like #3 of your post. Perfection can really slow you down and can cripple you from getting started In IM. Just get your products out there and correct any minor mistakes you have made as you go along.
          I agree wholeheartedly!
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    • Profile picture of the author mogulmap
      Originally Posted by Deepak Media View Post

      Every self help guru says the same thing
      I agree Deepak, I think it should be said over and over to help people actually get it and move past the hurdles that keep them spinning their wheels.
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  • Profile picture of the author Heath Allison
    Great post I can identify what you are talking about as I have experienced it all, I think a lot of it is driven by fear of failure. I like the way you commit to action to overcome each of the problems. At the end of the day this is the only way to succeed.
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    • Profile picture of the author mogulmap
      Originally Posted by Heath Allison View Post

      Great post I can identify what you are talking about as I have experienced it all, I think a lot of it is driven by fear of failure. I like the way you commit to action to overcome each of the problems. At the end of the day this is the only way to succeed.
      Thanks Heath, yea I wanted to add the action steps and show what I did to overcome each of these mistakes.
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    This was a very well-written post. Thank you for sharing. I can relate to everything you have said, especially #1. So many of us know what to do - we are just not doing it. I think we talk ourselves into the idea that we're not ready, which is probably caused by a fear of success or fear of failure. You're so right though - taking daily action is the most important thing we can do.
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    • Profile picture of the author mogulmap
      Originally Posted by writerval View Post

      This was a very well-written post. Thank you for sharing. I can relate to everything you have said, especially #1. So many of us know what to do - we are just not doing it. I think we talk ourselves into the idea that we're not ready, which is probably caused by a fear of success or fear of failure. You're so right though - taking daily action is the most important thing we can do.
      Thank you very much! yes taking daily action is by far what seperated the old me from the new me. It's the only way to achieve any kind of success otherwise you stay in this limbo of constantly learning which eventually leads to information overload. It's a constant cycle until you break it. Stop buying products and start taking daily action in your business and success will soon follow.
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  • Thanks man!

    I am in the same position from the past 4 years...I am just planning to buy a simple domain from the past 2 years and haven't done anything till now.

    I just sit and dream about earning millions of dollars, but actually don't take action.

    I am gonna actually start up with my work.

    According to me my major set back is i am SACRED!! I am sacred of future results.

    My life is messed up...today i see myself standing in the same position from where i actually started off.

    I don't know where to go and what to do to move forward.

    cheers
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    • Profile picture of the author mogulmap
      Originally Posted by Mohammed Sameerullah View Post

      Thanks man!

      I am in the same position from the past 4 years...I am just planning to buy a simple domain from the past 2 years and haven't done anything till now.

      I just sit and dream about earning millions of dollars, but actually don't take action.

      I am gonna actually start up with my work.

      According to me my major set back is i am SACRED!! I am sacred of future results.

      My life is messed up...today i see myself standing in the same position from where i actually started off.

      I don't know where to go and what to do to move forward.

      cheers
      No worries Mohammed, I know exactly how you feel your afraid of failure and honestly you probably will fail from know until you reach your goals I failed countless times and those failures were the best learning experiences I have ever had, better then any product you could ever buy. Don't fear failure its almost a guarantee embrace it, its how you react to the failure and what you do after it that counts. Keep going and never quit.

      I know your confused so I am going to give you your very first direction. First and formost get focused and believe in yourself and your dream. Your dream is real you just have to wait for reality to catch up. Second take action every single day. Pick a niche your passionate about and Starting today I want you to create one piece of content in that niche every single day. Dedicate an 1hr a day to being productive in your business. So that is your homework that is where you start, start today.

      Please feel free to comment or pm me if you have any questions.

      To summarize: TAKE ACTION EVERY SINGLE DAY

      Hope that helps
      To your success
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      • Originally Posted by mogulmap View Post

        No worries Mohammed, I know exactly how you feel your afraid of failure and honestly you probably will fail from know until you reach your goals I failed countless times and those failures were the best learning experiences I have ever had, better then any product you could ever buy. Don't fear failure its almost a guarantee embrace it, its how you react to the failure and what you do after it that counts. Keep going and never quit.

        I know your confused so I am going to give you your very first direction. First and formost get focused and believe in yourself and your dream. Your dream is real you just have to wait for reality to catch up. Second take action every single day. Pick a niche your passionate about and Starting today I want you to create one piece of content in that niche every single day. Dedicate an 1hr a day to being productive in your business. So that is your homework that is where you start, start today.

        Please feel free to comment or pm me if you have any questions.

        To summarize: TAKE ACTION EVERY SINGLE DAY

        Hope that helps
        To your success
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        Yep mate. Thanks for that motivation.

        I have made up my mind and starting from today i will be creating content for the niche i have in my mind.

        what do you suggest me...shall i buy the domain and start working or collect the content first??

        thanks.
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          Originally Posted by Mohammed Sameerullah View Post

          Yep mate. Thanks for that motivation.

          I have made up my mind and starting from today i will be creating content for the niche i have in my mind.

          what do you suggest me...shall i buy the domain and start working or collect the content first??

          thanks.
          Great Job Mohammed!!! giving your mind direction is one of the most important things you can do. This is your dream it's a big deal so stay focused, work hard and be consistant. Remember take action in your business every day. No more buying products, browsing forums, reading emails or checking out funny youtube videos during your work time. Like I said before put aside 1hr per day where you totally focus on your business, future and dream (I think your dream is worth an hour out of the day, dont you?) and you can do all that other stuff another time.

          You don't have to focus on the technical stuff right now, just start creating your content (every day). I also want to add, don't just make any kind of content, make really good, valuable content and engage your readers. If you make out of this world content when it's time to sell it's easy peezy!.

          Content is king! and it's what the internet was made for. Once you have content we can do so much with it like, use it to drive traffic, build a relationship with your readers, create products, build a list and more.

          So go ahead and start creating great, valuable content every day and I will help you get rockin!

          Keep me posted
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        I enjoyed very much reading your thoughts and 5 steps Chris. Thanks for putting it into such great, forward context.
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          Originally Posted by Critter View Post

          I enjoyed very much reading your thoughts and 5 steps Chris. Thanks for putting it into such great, forward context.
          Hey Critter, Thanks so much I',m glad you enjoyed the post
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  • Profile picture of the author Evocess
    This post ROCKZ!
    In my life, from being a student until living in the real world I've always encounter mistakes. Not just once but many times. We see mistakes negatively without knowing that mistakes is your key to success.

    Welcome mistakes in your life and ask permission from your own self to learn from all those mistakes you've done.
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    These are the very things that are stopping me too.
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  • Profile picture of the author Innovator3
    Hey Chris, this is a great list. Just want to thank you for taking the time in posting this and it definitely gave me some introspection.

    There is one of the principles that I'm having a hard time with and don't 100% agree with it and that's mistake #5.

    Originally Posted by mogulmap View Post

    Mistake #5: Focused on The Money

    This is my proudest obstacle that I have overcome. In the past everything I did was money oriented, I focused on the money first and the people second. Today money really doesn't mean much to me and helping people has become everything. I believe that if you truly and sincerely want and try to help people then the money will follow.
    [*]**Action Step**: Money isn't everything and really in my opinion it should be the last thing you think of. Focus on truly helping others and the money will flow to you.
    I definitely understand just thinking of money will cause you to spin your wheels b/c you'll constantly be thinking of the next "big thing" to get into and fall into that trap.

    However, as a business, you have to have the sales aspect in mind to keep keep it going, pay for expenses, etc.

    And I feel there's more to it than just "I want to help people" because if that's the case then you'd give everything you have away for free in the name of helping others out.

    Thoughts?
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    • Profile picture of the author mogulmap
      Originally Posted by Innovator3 View Post

      Hey Chris, this is a great list. Just want to thank you for taking the time in posting this and it definitely gave me some introspection.

      There is one of the principles that I'm having a hard time with and don't 100% agree with it and that's mistake #5.

      I definitely understand just thinking of money will cause you to spin your wheels b/c you'll constantly be thinking of the next "big thing" to get into and fall into that trap.

      However, as a business, you have to have the sales aspect in mind to keep keep it going, pay for expenses, etc.

      And I feel there's more to it than just "I want to help people" because if that's the case then you'd give everything you have away for free in the name of helping others out.

      Thoughts?
      Hey Innovator,

      Thanks a million for the kind words and I'm glad you enjoyed the post. I think you took mistake #5 alittle more literal then I intended when I wrote it. Yes we run busineses and money will always be a major part of it and always in our faces. What I was talking about was don't do things soley for the purpose of money.

      Here is a perfect example, I have a niche internet business in a very small niche that, #1: I knew nothing about and #2: I had no interest in, however the community involved in this niche are extremely passionate about it. Now I could have slapped together a crap product very cheaply and quickly with no real value and launched it to this community and made a quick bunch of money but to me that just isn't ethical, fair or right in my eyes. Instead I created a valuable product with great content and put in the effort and time to create the product that I would have in a niche that I personally am extremely passionte about. Why? because the people in this niche love it and they deserve to have a quality product. Giving value and great content was first and formost in my eyes and making money was second.

      I hope that makes more sense and you better understand what I was trying to say. People work hard for their money and their trusting you to give it to when they make their buying decision. I beleive in good karma, help others, give value and the money will follow.

      Any questions please feel free to ask.
      To your success
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    I've been somewhat of an active reader on this part of the forum for a while now. i guess i've been looking for the umph that will get me the umph I need to stop feeling the fear of failure.

    I've got a glass of port wine next to me right now.
    I will action today, coz i've been sitting on it, and i will remember this post!
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    • Profile picture of the author mogulmap
      Originally Posted by crissie View Post

      I've been somewhat of an active reader on this part of the forum for a while now. i guess i've been looking for the umph that will get me the umph I need to stop feeling the fear of failure.

      I've got a glass of port wine next to me right now.
      I will action today, coz i've been sitting on it, and i will remember this post!
      Great Job Crissie!!!, glad you liked the post and it gave you a boost to get going on your dream!. Failure is almost a guarante, I failed so many times its sickening heck this post is all about some of my failures.

      Honestly start today and take action every day. You have what it takes to succeed and live your dream you just have to do it.

      Make moves today and feel free to hit me up if you need anything.

      To your success,
      -Chris
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  • Profile picture of the author smonline
    very nice advice.

    and I really liked your explanation for mistake #1.

    One reason i feel many newbies don't take action because of thinking they are always missing something. It is the worst feeling you can have in business. I have gone through this and started thinking i am always missing something, and this caused me to gather more and more knowledge and not taking action.

    Knowledge in itself is not bad, some knowledge can be so effective that they can take your marketing to a new level. What is bad is the time you spend in acquring knowledge, and not taking action on them. When a knowledge is not acted upon, it dies down and you waste a lot of time.
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    • Profile picture of the author mogulmap
      Originally Posted by smonline View Post

      very nice advice.

      and I really liked your explanation for mistake #1.

      One reason i feel many newbies don't take action because of thinking they are always missing something. It is the worst feeling you can have in business. I have gone through this and started thinking i am always missing something, and this caused me to gather more and more knowledge and not taking action.

      Knowledge in itself is not bad, some knowledge can be so effective that they can take your marketing to a new level. What is bad is the time you spend in acquring knowledge, and not taking action on them. When a knowledge is not acted upon, it dies down and you waste a lot of time.
      Hey Smonline,

      I totally agree with you, just like in medicine their is no money in a cure so it's in the guru's best interest to keep prospects in a state of confusion so they keep buying and buying.

      There are so many shiny things out there in the IM world now that most people just keep spinning their wheels from one thing to another. However business foundation is the same and has been for years. Build a strong foundation and then you can begin testing and diversifying different income streams into your business.

      Really I believe everyone on the WF has the knowledge to get going today without buying some product, the problem is actually doing it.
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  • Profile picture of the author Elizabeth Fee
    Still trying to overcome #3. Fortunately I have taken more action lately then ever before, but I *still* catch myself focusing on something so trivial that by the time I realize that getting it totally 100% perfect is actually not that important, I've already wasted an hour or two.

    It is reassuring to read that so many others deal with the same obstacles that I do on a daily basis... and especially reassuring that the day will come when everything truly falls into place... if you just shift your way of thinking and, in many cases, the way you work.
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    • Profile picture of the author mogulmap
      Originally Posted by Elizabeth Fee View Post

      Still trying to overcome #3. Fortunately I have taken more action lately then ever before, but I *still* catch myself focusing on something so trivial that by the time I realize that getting it totally 100% perfect is actually not that important, I've already wasted an hour or two.

      It is reassuring to read that so many others deal with the same obstacles that I do on a daily basis... and especially reassuring that the day will come when everything truly falls into place... if you just shift your way of thinking and, in many cases, the way you work.
      For sure Elizabeth, you are deffinetly NOT alone! don't seek perfection, honestly it will never be perfect enough to overcome the fear of failure. I think most people use the excuse of not getting out there because "it's not ready yet" because deep down they are just afraid of failure. But in reality the faster we can fail the faster we can get over it and move ahead.

      Keep up the great work!
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    Thanks for pointing that out.

    Most WSOs overpromise income and sometimes i just wonder what did i do wrong that cause me not to get that kind of income.

    I guess it is all down to determination and effort to just keep trying on the same thing, and correcting myself of my own mistakes.
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  • Profile picture of the author hireava
    Amazing insights! Those five mistakes will really rob success in one's life. What's more important is that you knew your mistakes and did something about it.
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    • Profile picture of the author mogulmap
      Originally Posted by hireava View Post

      Amazing insights! Those five mistakes will really rob success in one's life. What's more important is that you knew your mistakes and did something about it.
      Mistakes are natures way of making us better! the key however is realizing your making those mistakes quickly and fixing them.
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  • Profile picture of the author LuceMk
    great post magul, for Mistake #4: My Mind Wasn't Ready For Success
    This is always jammed me to keep fighting, whether the wind what I always turn when it reaches the destination
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    • Profile picture of the author mogulmap
      Originally Posted by LuceMk View Post

      great post magul, for Mistake #4: My Mind Wasn't Ready For Success
      This is always jammed me to keep fighting, whether the wind what I always turn when it reaches the destination
      In my opinion, correct mindframe is THE BIGGEST factor in becoming successful. It's more important then any tip, trick, technique or strategy that any guru or product can ever give you.

      Having all the winning strategies and techniques in the world and a quiters mindframe is like have a perfectly running car with no gas.
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    They are all great mistake .They also robbed me .Now I am still fighting against them .I believe very very soon I will achieve success.At the same time I am careful about them .

    One thing help me so much that is confident ,hard labor .Both of them is my weapon for this war.
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    • Profile picture of the author mogulmap
      Originally Posted by rising_sun View Post

      They are all great mistake .They also robbed me .Now I am still fighting against them .I believe very very soon I will achieve success.At the same time I am careful about them .

      One thing help me so much that is confident ,hard labor .Both of them is my weapon for this war.
      Great job rising_sun!! keep up the fight!
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    thx fod the share!!
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    • Profile picture of the author mogulmap
      Originally Posted by gsduds2 View Post

      thx fod the share!!
      Your very welcome glad you enjoyed it!
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  • Profile picture of the author Joan Haynes
    Thanks for sharing...we can all learn from each others mistakes & short-cut our journey to success.

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    • Profile picture of the author mogulmap
      Originally Posted by Joan Haynes View Post

      Thanks for sharing...we can all learn from each others mistakes & short-cut our journey to success.

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      Glad you liked it, I totally agree with you we all experience the same mistakes and we can work together to quickly catch and fix them.
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  • Profile picture of the author therenegadeleader
    I think everybody on this forum already experienced this 5 mistakes. Well, all we can do is to learn from it.
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    • Profile picture of the author mogulmap
      Originally Posted by therenegadeleader View Post

      I think everybody on this forum already experienced this 5 mistakes. Well, all we can do is to learn from it.
      I agree renegade, they are the killers of many dreams unfortunatley.
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    Absolutely fabulous post. Thanks man. Got motivated.
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    • Profile picture of the author mogulmap
      Originally Posted by towhidzaman View Post

      Absolutely fabulous post. Thanks man. Got motivated.
      Thanks towhidzaman!, glad you enjoyed the post and it helped get you going!
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  • Profile picture of the author ebiz1
    That number 3.....seeking perfectionism...I've been there too. I thought that no one else could do the tasks the way I did, everything to the last detail, perfectly set....and was spending this way soooo much time. This way I did not have time to grow bigger as a business, as I had no energy and time to focus on planning and setting the next steps to get me to the next level.
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    • Profile picture of the author mogulmap
      Originally Posted by ebiz1 View Post

      That number 3.....seeking perfectionism...I've been there too. I thought that no one else could do the tasks the way I did, everything to the last detail, perfectly set....and was spending this way soooo much time. This way I did not have time to grow bigger as a business, as I had no energy and time to focus on planning and setting the next steps to get me to the next level.
      Hey ebiz, yes deffinetely #3 was a killer for me, nothing I did ever got out there because to me "it wasn't ready yet" lol. Just put it together and get it out there or give yourself a deadline for example I'm giving myself two weeks then its going out no matter what and optimize after.

      Another problem I had was trying to do everything myself, because just like you I thought no one could do it like I visioned it. So what began to happen was if I didn't know how to do something I would search all day online to learn how to do it then take weeks trying to get it "just right" and I stayed in a state of learning and not doing. Now I do alot of outsourcing beacuse I know now that we don't have to know everything to be successful.

      Get out there and take action today and your dreams will soon follow!

      To your success,
      -Chris
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    • Profile picture of the author mogulmap
      Originally Posted by theoptionsprofessor View Post

      Mine:

      1) Diversifying

      2) Taking it for granted

      3) Getting too comfortable and not powering on

      4) Not having an end "goal"

      5) Life...
      Hey professor,

      Great list!! I especially like number 5, man life always seems to get in our way doesn't it.
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  • Hey Chris,

    I wanted to get in touch with you with my first domain..but couldn't post a visitor message because of less post count.

    can you pm me so that i can message you back.

    thanks
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  • Hey Chris,

    I wanted to get in touch with you with my first domain..but couldn't post a visitor message because of less post count.

    can you pm me so that i can message you back.

    thanks
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    • Profile picture of the author mogulmap
      Originally Posted by Mohammed Sameerullah View Post

      Hey Chris,

      I wanted to get in touch with you with my first domain..but couldn't post a visitor message because of less post count.

      can you pm me so that i can message you back.

      thanks
      PM has been sent my man!
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      • Originally Posted by mogulmap View Post

        PM has been sent my man!
        Not able to send you a Pm yet
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  • Profile picture of the author Anthony Gibson
    You're the man, had the exact same problems myself...

    1. Belief - Believed falsely for most of my life that there was a mythical "social hierarchy"
    2. Action - Lack of confidence and fear of failure prevented any substantial action
    3. Goals - Didn't have any concrete and compelling goals to strive for
    4. Research - Didn't read about success or ways to improve
    5. Sabotage - Battle of the mind, negative side always winning and preventing achievement right at the end
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    • #5 sabotage - I am still battling with my mind and -ve side is the one who wins the race always.

      I have goals but don't know how to implement it.My heart is crying out loud as i feel helpless.

      Originally Posted by MobilMarket View Post

      You're the man, had the exact same problems myself...

      1. Belief - Believed falsely for most of my life that there was a mythical "social hierarchy"
      2. Action - Lack of confidence and fear of failure prevented any substantial action
      3. Goals - Didn't have any concrete and compelling goals to strive for
      4. Research - Didn't read about success or ways to improve
      5. Sabotage - Battle of the mind, negative side always winning and preventing achievement right at the end
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      • Profile picture of the author mogulmap
        Originally Posted by Mohammed Sameerullah View Post

        #5 sabotage - I am still battling with my mind and -ve side is the one who wins the race always.

        I have goals but don't know how to implement it.My heart is crying out loud as i feel helpless.
        Hey Mohammed, no worries my man we all have been where your at feel free to email me at mmognet [at] gmail [dot] com
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    • Profile picture of the author mogulmap
      Originally Posted by MobilMarket View Post

      You're the man, had the exact same problems myself...

      1. Belief - Believed falsely for most of my life that there was a mythical "social hierarchy"
      2. Action - Lack of confidence and fear of failure prevented any substantial action
      3. Goals - Didn't have any concrete and compelling goals to strive for
      4. Research - Didn't read about success or ways to improve
      5. Sabotage - Battle of the mind, negative side always winning and preventing achievement right at the end
      Great list Mobi! thanks for posting it.
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    Every bullet hit my weak point, great post, I'll read it again and again, Thanks man.
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    • Profile picture of the author mogulmap
      Originally Posted by dennischow View Post

      Every bullet hit my weak point, great post, I'll read it again and again, Thanks man.
      Hey Dennis, I'm so glad you enjoyed the post, keep at it and take action in your business and life every single day!
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      Originally Posted by Michael55555 View Post

      Great tips! Taking action is so important!
      In my opinion its the most important skill an IM'er can have!
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  • Profile picture of the author mogulmap
    Originally Posted by jaasmit View Post

    These are those old words which we are hearing for a long time. This are really good that you are reminding it.
    Yes I agree we hear them over and over "take action" or "start implementing" but unfortunatley they are lost in the sea of shiny objects.
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