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Self talk

by hugofortin
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Hi,

If somone tell to your child or someone that you love that she or he stupid, not intelligent, etc. You will become angry and you even become physically violent.

We call ourselves with the same bad names.

If is not OK for others, why it's OK for ourselves to do so?

This is what we do everyday unconsiously. So, we must have the right mindset to have success. Right?

We must filter what come inside of us. We must be careful about it.

bye

Hugo
#talk
  • Profile picture of the author DirectoryKing
    Thats true,recitation goes a long in affecting how we think. That is why we should be careful what we listen to everyday...
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  • Profile picture of the author switches81
    Negative self-talk is a huge roadblock for many, many people. Whenever I am having issues getting some work done, or completing a project, it's usually always linked to some kind of negative self-talk. Once I change the way I view the situation, it frees me up to succeed.
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  • Profile picture of the author ReachTheSummit
    Hey Hugo,

    It is very important to remove as much negativity in ones life and replace it with something positive. There is so much depressing news, events, etc. that if you just choose to not watch them, your life will be much improved. Have a news blackout for one month and see what happens.

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  • Profile picture of the author Doug Miller
    Rule your mind, do not let your mind rule you! Do this by being a mind watcher. When you notice that you are thinking negative thoughts, just stop and replace them with some thing positive. As simple as this sounds, it takes practice to do.
    Doug
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    • Profile picture of the author Ross "The Pit Boss"
      Another thing that helps in removing the negative self talk and the negative talk period, is to become as neutral to what is going on around you as possible.
      If you see or hear something and get into a negative emotion about it, it is harder to keep from thinking negative thoughts. But, if you're neutral to whatever is happening, then you'll become more of an observer and less of a participant in the negativity, and you'll tend to stop thinking negative thought and having negative feelings.
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  • Profile picture of the author Vincelog
    One simple philosophy that can help us deal with this.

    Do unto others what you wish they would do to you.

    Cheers
    Vincent
    Personal Development Blogger
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    • Profile picture of the author doomain
      jsut make a positive self talk everyday , a kind of sentence (postiive) that you might need for your current situation. You'll shock to see the result
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      • Profile picture of the author markfoo76
        Don't think I'm crazy but I do positive self-talk in the mirror from time to time. It really does reassure your own beliefs and enhance your self-confidence. Try it. It works.

        Cheers~

        Mark
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        • Profile picture of the author hugofortin
          Originally Posted by markfoo76 View Post

          Don't think I'm crazy but I do positive self-talk in the mirror from time to time. It really does reassure your own beliefs and enhance your self-confidence. Try it. It works.

          Cheers~

          Mark
          Hi,

          No,no it makes senses. It reenforce your confidence, definitively.

          bye

          Hugo
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  • Profile picture of the author zeasondesign
    it's true.. mindset is very important and can be done by self talk too
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  • Profile picture of the author Warrior Globetrotter
    I read somewhere you are what you habitually think...and i agree
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    • Profile picture of the author 1 Marketing
      Originally Posted by Warrior Globetrotter View Post

      I read somewhere you are what you habitually think...and i agree

      I totally agree to it. If your mind is thiking for sucess maximam time in a day. You should be sure, sucess is on your way. And vice versa
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  • Profile picture of the author JeffLam
    It should go along like this:

    If you truly love somebody, you will only want to give that person the best.

    If you truly love yourself, you will only want to give yourself the best.

    How true.
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    • Profile picture of the author LanaKravtsova
      meditation helps a lot with controlling your mind chatter. it doen't have to be anything extreme, just 10 minutes a day is already very beneficial..
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  • Profile picture of the author kobe24
    Yes, I def have to agree with you here. It is very important that you keep yourself in a positive mindset at all times. The key to success is you have to work hard than anyone else you know. To do that we have to follow law of attraction. Law of attraction states that whatever we think in our mind and beleive that is exactly what will happen.
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