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How to Create Your Own Reality

by JagSEO
36 replies
They said that to be successful in life you have to create your own reality.

So what is your reality and how do you create them?

So what is the values you have to have to have a successful reality?
#create #reality
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    optimism is our realty and we can create it through being optimizer.
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    Here's how to choose your reality.....



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    One Word. EXCELLENCE.

    Look at anyone that has done anything great. They strived for Excellence. :-)
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  • Profile picture of the author ryanbiddulph
    Hi Jag,

    How bout this one; Co-create

    Work with the Universe, see good in your life now, trust, let go dependency on conditions, or people, and form a permanent connection with spirit.

    This works well for me, gotta say I connect with good matches and release all others, and find spiritual nourishment in good old G-O-D, and humble me, to help you, and live a neat life.

    Thanks!
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  • Profile picture of the author Odahh
    perception is reality .

    meaning we create our reality based off our perception .

    have 100 people describe the moon three different way .. you may thing there are 300 different moons .

    when it is the same moon just perceived differently

    the money we use today has no permanent value only the current perception of it's value

    i play free to play ..game that have digital items you can pay hundreds event thousands of real dollars for ..
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  • Profile picture of the author JagSEO
    So If my perception is I will be an author or my mindset is I am already an author because that is my perceived reality but the thing is I haven't started it yet. So my reality is not yet a reality?

    Or my reality is stupid reality, or maybe my mindset and my perception is not yet stable that's why is not yet a reality. Or maybe I just make it complicated?

    Maybe I just have to just stop thinking and start doing and let be the reality becomes the reality.

    What do you think?
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    • Profile picture of the author Odahh
      Originally Posted by JagSEO View Post

      So If my perception is I will be an author or my mindset is I am already an author because that is my perceived reality but the thing is I haven't started it yet. So my reality is not yet a reality?

      Or my reality is stupid reality, or maybe my mindset and my perception is not yet stable that's why is not yet a reality. Or maybe I just make it complicated?

      Maybe I just have to just stop thinking and start doing and let be the reality becomes the reality.

      What do you think?
      of course ..while you are putting off authoring your own mindset you are allowing it to either stay the same or outside forces to author your mindset.. by saying that in the future you will be the author..that means either someone else is authoring it or has been authoring it ..but not you .

      five years ago i would have asked what makes the same pair of pants produced on the same machine in china ..the only difference between them the label ..worth 15 $ at wallymart 50 at another store and 100 at another ..

      or what make a hand bag worth paying 20,000 dollars on or a watch ..

      you may have perfect hearing and never misunderstand or miss hearing something someone says to you ..so you reality and the actions you take is far different from what you would have done if you had heard what was said .

      maybe you will understand it from somone else
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    • Profile picture of the author Joe Mobley
      Originally Posted by JagSEO View Post


      Maybe I just have to just stop thinking and start doing and let be the reality becomes the reality.
      I think you might be on to something here.

      Perhaps Aston can help you out,
      http://www.warriorforum.com/mind-war...ml#post9241345

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  • Profile picture of the author Taraka
    First you need to imagine your reality. What is your image, what are the people around you, where do you live, what you do.
    Make an ideal picture, draw a checklist, and go on making it real. That's how they teach it in psychology classes.
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    • Profile picture of the author The Great Gordino
      we all create our realities every day, it's not something we can choose to do or not do. What we can choose to do is create a *different* reality, and for that to happen, something from the current reality has to be different.

      That's normally a different set of attitudes driving different actions, leading to different results = different reality.

      Otherwise we will create our current reality over and over again!
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    Visualize the life you want to live, set goals based upon that visualized lifestyle, and take persistent daily action until your dreams become reality.
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  • Profile picture of the author dndoseller
    Buddha said it long before "The Secret" and Law of Attraction:

    Originally Posted by JagSEO View Post

    So what is your reality and how do you create them?
    "We are what we think. All that we are arises with our thoughts. With our thoughts, we make the world."

    Originally Posted by JagSEO View Post

    So what is the values you have to have to have a successful reality?
    “To avoid all evil. To do good. To purify one's mind."
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  • Profile picture of the author Ean Stark
    Great responses,thanks for these!

    Live your dreams,
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    La vida se basa en plasmar tus sueños en la vida real. Luchar por alcanzar lo que tú deseas y no lo que el mundo te pide. Si lo enfocas mejor, sería crearte y sueño (que ya apenas tenemos), y hacerlo real en tu día a día.

    Tú eres el que te creas a tí mismo y a todo lo que te rodea.

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  • Profile picture of the author fallison
    You can create a new reality in your mind but until you take action to make it real, it is just a delusion.
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    We Dream Of Our Success
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    There is no "How" but more so when are you going to create your reality?
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  • Profile picture of the author munkymanu
    Really interesting and being very new to all the internet forums and socialization, this is a very interesting topic. Everyone constantly wants to live in reality while creating this fa-sad of having a great life through the internet where nothing can seem like reality because you are not face to face with an actual person. Leaving your mind free to just open up to a screen. I am now embracing this by allowing others to actually give me some great feedback because on one hand if your just interact with face to face contact, I would be cutting off a whole different and vast audience who might have some great input. Overall in general I am trying to create this new REALITY for myself to grow and start a business so I can work for myself. Any input or thoughts on anything I have said is greatly appreciated. Any thoughts on getting started creating my own website would be appreciated also, I went with starting off using a free website just curious if I should take a different approach. Feel free to check it out and also give me some critique. Thank you have a great day. Website is Oneforall.uphero.com
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  • Profile picture of the author John Jonas Phil VA
    My reality is a lifestyle where I can comfortably provide for family and be an active part of their lives. It doesn't follow most people's definition of success but it works for me because it gives me everything I want right now. I had to set my own parameters on what success means to me. I know not everyone understands it but I know everyone can see that I'm living a life most people envy and I'm able to do all of it on my own terms.
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  • Profile picture of the author IntuitiveMonkey
    You always create your own reality whether you realize it or not. But some people will start awakening to this fact and then they will start learning how to create the reality they prefer. It is by holding the right intent in a state of love, joy and gratitude.
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    • Profile picture of the author JensSteyaert
      Originally Posted by MonkeySimpleWay View Post

      You always create your own reality whether you realize it or not. But some people will start awakening to this fact and then they will start learning how to create the reality they prefer. It is by holding the right intent in a state of love, joy and gratitude.
      That's all good and well, but what if you were unfortunate enough to be born in some slum in a third world country having to fight to survive? Try to tell those people they can create whatever reality they want...
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      • Profile picture of the author Odahh
        Originally Posted by JensSteyaert View Post

        That's all good and well, but what if you were unfortunate enough to be born in some slum in a third world country having to fight to survive? Try to tell those people they can create whatever reality they want...
        my partner possible future wife ..even though we are on opposite side of the world and broke right now..when we started talking she was homeless in a capital city of a developing country ..during wich she cought denghi fever or what ever it is called ..eneded up in the hospital and then in jail untill she could pay the hospital bill..

        anyway it been hell for us both the last few years..but we have nearly similar dreams and i am about to get the money to get the first part of the dream going and in 1-3 months we will be together ..in the life we want with at least 6 month of no financial worries .

        the financial resources somone in a developing country need as well as the income..is far easier to pull off than many in the western world . she is 30 now and has had her dreams sence she was young ..and we can start fulfilling them in the next year after we buy a piece of land and build a small house .

        many people in the developing world understand their realities suck a bit..but they know there are things they can do to make it better and not make it worse ..
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      • Profile picture of the author Odahh
        Originally Posted by JensSteyaert View Post

        That's all good and well, but what if you were unfortunate enough to be born in some slum in a third world country having to fight to survive? Try to tell those people they can create whatever reality they want...
        i am not picking on this poster ..but there is an issue with personal development ..law of attraction ..and taking responsibility ..i cal it the what about the other guy syndrome..where the attempt is to invalidate concepts ..by inventing some other person.. or pointing at a massive natural disaster..and sat well did millions of people create that .

        this planet we are on is a buffet of opportunities for way to live and event that can effect everyone ..human can be birthed into the the most horrible poverty ..or absolute luxury..

        we live on a planet where there are as many people over weight as who do not have enough to eat..and even in the Usa 1 in 6 kids go to bed hungry . and many others only eat enough because much of what they eat is not real food .

        there is a reality of the world we live in.. but we have a choice in how this effects us .

        about a hundred years ago nearly everyone who lived the best of life where what we see in the street of developing cities you needed to have 6-8 children so 2 could make it to adulthood . yada yada ..

        there is a reality of the world and the reality of the effect where you live on the planet effects you ..they key is learning there is much more on the menue than the small amount you can see .
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  • Profile picture of the author JagSEO
    Is it right to say that your reality can be a reality if you already lost the norm? Your reality is your own perception and not other people's perception of you?
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  • Profile picture of the author Odahh
    the best any other humans perception of you can amount to is about like trying to view the greats works of art through a smashed car winshield hung in front of it .. after somone pops a really bright flash in front of your face .

    and thats if you are newly married ..

    most people perception of you is based off of how you make them feel and what they think you think of them .

    then there is family who will always view you from when you where so small ..
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  • Profile picture of the author stopper
    Creating own reality begins by creating your own definition of success, Having a metal map of where you are and how you intend to get there. A chicken may be considered successful for making its way inside the granary where all the grains lie. A cat may need a different approach. Because the mice live under the granary the cat would not find success by making its way inside the granary. For the cat, success would be associated with the granary by not the same way as the chicken.
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  • Profile picture of the author cyberzolo
    I wouldn't say create your own reality because I don't believe in that. You can use the Law of Attraction to attract the things you want in life. Too many variables needed to control to create your own reality.
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    • Profile picture of the author The Great Gordino
      Originally Posted by cyberzolo View Post

      I wouldn't say create your own reality because I don't believe in that. You can use the Law of Attraction to attract the things you want in life. Too many variables needed to control to create your own reality.
      This post probably makes the least sense out of all in the whole thread!
      You say you don't believe in creating your own reality, but then you say to use LOA to attract the things you want in life?
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  • Profile picture of the author Aji Raman
    How to create your own reality?

    TRUST yourself.

    Trust what you are and what you are going to be. Trust your pathway, your destiny.

    LOVE yourself.

    LOVE what you are, without any conditions. LOVE yourself now, poor or rich, NOW.

    CONTROL yourself.

    Be the captain of your boat. CONTROL, be in control. Who controls the frame wins the game.

    BE yourself.

    LOVE

    -AJ
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  • Profile picture of the author tbrinkmann
    for me it all starts with goal setting then taking action towards that goal - there in lays your ability to create your own reality with limited woo woo involved
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  • Profile picture of the author Jolly Roger
    We're already creating our own reality. If it's not the reality we want, we need to tweak a few things like our attitude and habits.
    As the saying goes: "You will never change your life until you change something you do daily."
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    To be successful in life, you have to learn to find live peacefully and joyfully. This is not easy. Success comes from within you. Research mindfulness. It has changed my life.
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