Expectations for your child.

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In Western-Europe parents want their child to become happy
In the USA parents want their child to become successful
In Asia parents want their child to be educated
In Eastern-Europe parents want their child to be healthy

If you could choose one option, what would you wish your child to be in the future?
  • Profile picture of the author MissTerraK
    All of the above, of course.


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    • Profile picture of the author allegandro
      Originally Posted by MissTerraK View Post

      All of the above, of course.


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      I Understand, but what if you can choose only 1?
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      • Profile picture of the author MissTerraK
        Originally Posted by allegandro View Post

        I Understand, but what if you can choose only 1?

        If I had to choose just one, I would choose happiness above all else.

        Success doesn't always bring happiness, because many times you have to work way too hard and long to maintain that success, be under way too much stress and miss valuable time with your loved ones. And well, some of the wealthiest people I've met are in fact, miserable!

        Education doesn't always bring happiness either, I mean look at all of the educated people who can't find a good paying job in their career field due to the poor economy.

        Healthy is good, but it doesn't ensure happiness. I know many healthy yet sad and lonely people.


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        • Profile picture of the author allegandro
          Originally Posted by MissTerraK View Post

          If I had to choose just one, I would choose happiness above all else.

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          I agree with you 100%
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  • Profile picture of the author WalkingCarpet
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    Learn to wipe their own rear asap.
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  • Profile picture of the author anynewsbd
    I got number 03 because education is one of the key off success
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  • Profile picture of the author Alast
    What if the only way to achieve happiness, is for the child to be educated, successful, and healthy (seems reasonable)?
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    • Profile picture of the author MissTerraK
      Originally Posted by Alast View Post

      What if the only way to achieve happiness, is for the child to be educated, successful, and healthy (seems reasonable)?

      Then I feel sorry for the child.

      There are so much more meaningful things in life to be happy about, well, with the exception of health.


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  • Profile picture of the author Claude Whitacre
    Originally Posted by allegandro View Post

    In Western-Europe parents want their child to become happy
    In the USA parents want their child to become successful
    In Asia parents want their child to be educated
    In Eastern-Europe parents want their child to be healthy

    If you could choose one option, what would you wish your child to be in the future?
    I don't like the question. As parents, we have a huge influence over how our kids turn out.

    I don't need to wish for anything for my child. I can show them how to get it.

    I have a son (an adult now). To me, my primary job was to prepare him for life without me holding his hand. When he was 5 years old, I just wanted him to be happy. When he was 18 years old, I really wanted him to be responsible. Because that will make him happy for his entire life....long after I'm gone.
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