Why You Have To Confuse Girls To Attract Them

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I've been doing research... pretty much my whole life, before I even knew it. And I've come to the conclusion, that girls don't like what they can understand.

I don't know, maybe it's just me but it seems like the more confused a girl is about who you are and the more she doesn't understand you, the more interested she'll be.

I know that if I meet a girl and I'm myself up front, I'll get no attention from her, but when I "run game" on her and then I'm myself later, she's more interested than ever. Haha.

That's just a little theory I've been working on. NO OFFENSE INTENDED TO ANY FEMALES IN HERE

What do you guys think?
  • Profile picture of the author seasoned
    Too many women figure they have males all figured out. And they have a LOT of bad stereotypes!

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  • Profile picture of the author David Jackson
    Originally Posted by TotalOperator View Post

    What do you guys think?
    I think you don't know anything about women.

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    • Profile picture of the author Elmer Hurlstone
      Originally Posted by David Jackson View Post

      I think you don't know anything about women.

      David Jackson
      David, on occasion I've disagreed with your position on various marketing related subjects.

      In this instance I believe you've hit the nail squarely on the head.

      Elmer
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  • Profile picture of the author ThomM
    Originally Posted by TotalOperator View Post

    I've been doing research... pretty much my whole life, before I even knew it. And I've come to the conclusion, that girls don't like what they can understand.

    I don't know, maybe it's just me but it seems like the more confused a girl is about who you are and the more she doesn't understand you, the more interested she'll be.

    I know that if I meet a girl and I'm myself up front, I'll get no attention from her, but when I "run game" on her and then I'm myself later, she's more interested than ever. Haha.

    That's just a little theory I've been working on. NO OFFENSE INTENDED TO ANY FEMALES IN HERE

    What do you guys think?
    Maybe because you're uninteresting, vanilla, or shallow?
    I've never "run game" and I've been married twice, in 3 other serious relationships, and dated more women then I can count.
    I also have a feeling I have more years in it then you and probably have kids older then you
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  • Profile picture of the author waterotter
    Originally Posted by TotalOperator View Post

    I've been doing research... pretty much my whole life, before I even knew it. And I've come to the conclusion, that girls don't like what they can understand.

    I don't know, maybe it's just me but it seems like the more confused a girl is about who you are and the more she doesn't understand you, the more interested she'll be.

    I know that if I meet a girl and I'm myself up front, I'll get no attention from her, but when I "run game" on her and then I'm myself later, she's more interested than ever. Haha.

    That's just a little theory I've been working on. NO OFFENSE INTENDED TO ANY FEMALES IN HERE

    What do you guys think?
    I think you need to read "Men are From Mars, Women are From Venus" :p
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  • Profile picture of the author thunderbird
    Interesting. Maybe a bit of "familiarity breeds contempt" going on? Naturally, the more you're with someone, the more flaws you will see. I guess, there isn't much that can be done about that, apart from fixing up what needs to be fixed in yourself ("needs" being the operative word, so I am not promoting artificial enhancements or liposuction).
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  • Profile picture of the author KarlWarren
    Originally Posted by TotalOperator View Post

    What do you guys think?
    I think that playing games is a pretty poor foundation for a relationship.

    If you have to play games to keep or attract a partner, then you'll end up with the wrong partner IMO.
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  • Profile picture of the author mr2020
    I've said it before, I'll say it again.

    If you actually are interesting, you won't have to create confusion or attraction - to interest women - or anyone for that matter.

    So here is the 2 step program for "getting women".

    1. Become interesting yourself. (Get a life.)
    2. Be interested in HER. Not just her bodyparts.

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    • Profile picture of the author brianvanr
      I have been married for 33 years and I can tell you that some of them were difficult years but many more were wonderful and worth all the effort. I am certainly not a perfect husband but I believe that it is my call to provide a home where my wife and I serve each other. Some times I am the strong one other times it is my wife who is strong but together we are terrific.

      There better be alot more to a relationship then body parts. They change after 33 years on both sides of the relationship but true commitment and interest in the other person grows.

      If women are not interested maybe they are reading an improper motive. It is all about honesty and a sincere interest in the other person. This is what attracts not tricks or games.
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  • Profile picture of the author HeySal
    Where the hell do you guys come up with this stuff? You really need to start getting your life advice from somewhere besides $10 relationship WSOs. Good grief.
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    • Profile picture of the author Elmer Hurlstone
      Originally Posted by HeySal View Post

      Where the hell do you guys come up with this stuff? You really need to start getting your life advice from somewhere besides $10 relationship WSOs. Good grief.
      Sal,

      May I infer that your, "...you guys...", was not all inclusive re the male responders to this thread?

      Elmer

      PS. to "brianvanr", well said, sir. Based on 37+ years of marriage to my, thus far, first and only wife, I concur.
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      • Profile picture of the author MissTerraK
        You get what you give...

        Be a player...
        Get a player!

        Right back atcha, Babe!

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      • Profile picture of the author HeySal
        Originally Posted by Elmer Hurlstone View Post

        Sal,

        May I infer that your, "...you guys...", was not all inclusive re the male responders to this thread?

        Elmer
        Guess I wasn't real clear about that. No that was targeted straight at the OP - the "...you guys..." came in because of some of the other threads I've seen that start out with guys grumbling about women, when the problem was obvious that we are seen as goals, property, inscrutable beings, possessions, toys............and everything else but just people. Some of the OP's I've seen about women, in fact, are leading me toward the belief that we're the smart gender of "just people", too.
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  • Profile picture of the author glassytaz
    Apparently they like a challenge and go for men who are difficult / treat them badly. At least most women.
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    • Profile picture of the author MissTerraK
      Originally Posted by glassytaz View Post

      Apparently they like a challenge and go for men who are difficult / treat them badly. At least most women.
      Oh Pffft!

      You've been hanging out in the wrong places, honey!

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  • Profile picture of the author Buddd
    So, Total Operator,

    You sound like a real ladies man. Did the compressor come with that model or was there an extra charge?

    Bud
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  • Profile picture of the author myeanne
    Well, not all girls are like that.

    I'm much interested on the things that I understand. I don't want complicated matters.
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  • Profile picture of the author KenThompson
    Total Operator, you're the reason for a benevolent universe. You're
    being watched over so a freight train doesn't vaporize you.


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    • Profile picture of the author Edk
      It's not my experience. Be straight upfront decent. Hey, if almost every woman you meet turns you down or something, if you act yourself, I can guarantee that not everyone will. Make friends with the one (or more than one?) that doesn't act that way
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  • Profile picture of the author seasoned
    Sal,

    I have seen a LOT of relationship "teachers", etc... Most are IDIOTS! Maybe ALL of them are! HECK, one was married like 3 times, hated men, etc... Since I am male, I know what she tells women is just WRONG! And I know that what she tells men can't be that much better.

    ICSM. For the record, it wouldn't have violated any rules.

    Steve
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  • Profile picture of the author SmashTweet
    Hey Total Operator, I am a girl myself and I think only they who can't convince others, confuse them.
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