Ever seen a girl at a bar and didn't know how to really introduce yourself?

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Ok... So, this is kinda awkward... its like that first time you see a girl at a bar and you think she's really cute, but you really have no idea of how to introduce yourself to break the ice... Yes, this is kinda like that.

My name is Alexander Lessa... Some of you know me, some of you don't. I've never really been active in the WF (looking to change that)... I've made a few posts here and there... But nothing close to what the majority of you contribute.

I tip my hat off to you guys for all of your great contributions to this community and im honored to be a part of it.

Here's a little babble about me for those who care to know...
- Serial Entrepreneur (Who can never spell entrepreneur correctly (EVER))
- Almost died at the age of 18... (motorcycle)
- Made first six figures offline by the age of 20...
- Been marketing offline/online for numerous years
- I love writing copy (Sadly I consider myself pretty talented
- I love speaking... its just my thang!
- Never camera shy
- Co-Authored a book with the infamous Legendary Dan Kennedy (currently being published)
- Currently writing my second book (Can't disclose name as of yet)

I might of missed some stuff.... Furthermore, I've got a many friends here on the WF who are extremely active and great contributors some of who I meet with regularly here in Miami.

Once again im honored to be a part of this community. Looking forward to whats to come.

All the best!

-- Alexander Lessa
AlexanderLessa.com (Getting Redesigned) :-(
#bar #girl #introduce
  • Profile picture of the author Trivum
    Originally Posted by Alexander Lessa View Post

    - Made first six figures offline by the age of 19...
    I'm sure that would work on most girls at a bar.

    Welcome.
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    • Profile picture of the author KathyK
      If you are looking to land the girl, you need to listen as well as talk. Seems you've been doing that - so welcome.
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      Kathy

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      • Profile picture of the author Alexander Lessa
        Originally Posted by Charles E. White View Post

        Welcome aboard Alexander! Good to have you here with us!
        Thanks dude!

        Originally Posted by cosmokid View Post

        Welcome! You have impressive writing credentials. I think you'll like it here. There are a lot of us hybrid writer/marketers lurking about.

        PS: And when I see a girl in a bar I want to talk to, usually the ole tried and true line of "Where did you get that dress?????" or "Where did you get those shoes/that purse????" works just fine for me.

        Of course, your mileage may be different.
        Thanks Cosmo! Yea. Ironically I actually met my wife at a bar... A total stranger introduced us. lol!!

        Originally Posted by KathyK View Post

        If you are looking to land the girl, you need to listen as well as talk. Seems you've been doing that - so welcome.
        Yes I have! Keeps my household sane!
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    • Profile picture of the author Alexander Lessa
      Originally Posted by Trivum View Post

      I'm sure that would work on most girls at a bar.

      Welcome.
      Hahaha! Definitely! Thanks for the welcome!
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    • Profile picture of the author sbucciarel
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      Originally Posted by Alexander Lessa
      - Made first six figures offline by the age of 19...

      Originally Posted by Trivum View Post

      I'm sure that would work on most girls at a bar.

      Welcome.
      lol ... this is true.
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  • Profile picture of the author Charles E. White
    Welcome aboard Alexander! Good to have you here with us!
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  • Profile picture of the author E. Brian Rose
    An old friend once told me that one in twenty girls will go home with you if you start off the conversation by asking them to. He was right, but he failed to tell me about the one in twenty that will slap you, and the two in twenty that will have you thrown out of the bar.
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    Founder of JVZoo. All around good guy :)

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    • Profile picture of the author desmond11
      Originally Posted by E. Brian Rose View Post

      An old friend once told me that one in twenty girls will go home with you if you start off the conversation by asking them to. He was right, but he failed to tell me about the one in twenty that will slap you, and the two in twenty that will have you thrown out of the bar.
      Is this from experience Brian? LMAO
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    • Profile picture of the author Alexander Lessa
      Originally Posted by E. Brian Rose View Post

      An old friend once told me that one in twenty girls will go home with you if you start off the conversation by asking them to. He was right, but he failed to tell me about the one in twenty that will slap you, and the two in twenty that will have you thrown out of the bar.
      Dude I just laughed my ass off!! Thanks for sharing that was awesome!
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    • Originally Posted by E. Brian Rose View Post

      An old friend once told me that one in twenty girls will go home with you if you start off the conversation by asking them to. He was right, but he failed to tell me about the one in twenty that will slap you, and the two in twenty that will have you thrown out of the bar.
      That's true. It all breaks down to a numbers game. BTW, Alexander, I also run a forum for aspiring pickup artists. Let me know if you would like a link.
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