"Guys" and "Actors"

Not surprising...it seems many people these days like to try and make males and females identical uh sorry.. I mean "equal". Otherwise the sexist brigade will jump on you...

Em. This is what i have questioned myself many time at first, but later I've convinced myself after referring to few websites. Finally, I understand that these day World follow the trend (not the rules, punctuations or grammar).

I think now a days anyone can called anything to all. so it's general thing. so better what we have to speak to other by pointing them. we can say what's in our mind. Thank you.

Personally, I like women to be feminine.
I like the difference.
There are 'guys' and 'gals';
There are 'dudes' and 'chicks'
Why is it that anything that used to differentiate women from men, associating anything efeminate to women is now regarded as sexist and/or degrading toward women?
To me, it sounds like women are recognizing men as being better.
(With which, I strongly disagree).

whatever happened to ladies and gentlemen

Doesn't really matter. Every few years slangs change, new words, customs prop up. If its understandable to most ppl, then it's fine.

I feel like polarity and contrast is important in all areas of life in order for us to be able to make distinctions.

A: When woman are not proud of their special God given distinctiveness, its just like saying "men are better".

B: I would never want to be with a woman who was as manly as I am, in fact I have left one because of that. She was all feminist, and I couldnt tell who the man was. I am proudf of my gentlemanliness and one of the joys of life is feeling and experiencing that with a real woman.

C: When a woman is different than a man it provides the polarity that makes him feel his manliness, and when a man is a real man it makes a woman feel more feminine, it has to because of contrast.

D: How can I feel like a man if my woman is not letting me show my prowess and is offended with the manly gifts I offer. How can I ever feel charming if she refuses to be charmed?

(How can you have any pudding if you dont eat yuour meat? lol- JK that went though my head when I wrote that, totally irrelevant).

F: How could a woman possibly feel like a woman in the presence of a man that acts like a girl? There's no distinction.

In my own life I want a woman who I can open doors for and treat gently like a princess, because the difference between us is wonderful and our expressing our differences gives me what I need to feel like a man and gives her what she needs to feel like a woman.

If I cant open a door for you, or buy you dinner, then you need to be with someone else , because you are stealing from me the thing that helps me define myself as a "gentleman".

I WANT that difference...I know theresdnothing worse than a man who acts like a girl. I dont even care if you are GAY, act like a man. God made us different and by not wanting to recognize that , you are just are stealing the sense of identity and the joy of the special gifts of the other person.

Now, when it comes to equal opportunity I guarantee you that the avergae man is going to pick up a 100 pound box faster than the average woman, we have scientifically a different type of adrenaline and testosterone...

But still a woman should have a chance to prove herself if she wishes, just like men should be able to have the same opportunity at what are typically considered womens jobs...

But in the end, its just a personal choice for me, a feminine woman who knows how to let me treat her like a lady allows me to experience the joy of what I offer as a man,

....but if everytime I do something gentlemanlty there is a probblem?

Sorry Bye bye...theres another lady is going to say "why thank you, you are such a gnetleman" and my heart is going to flutter.

If you want to steal that from your man go for it... But in my case, if you wont let me be a gentleman and I dont feel like a man with you, you are G-O-N-E!

I dont want to be with a woman who is more man than I am. I think alot of others feels the same. You wouldnt want to be with a man who was more womanly than you are , right?

Nothing is more attractive than a woman who embraces her feminenity.

Sorry.

People will disagree...its a personal choice, but for me, personally, its a straight up, shriveling, turn off.

Its one thing to be able to fend for yourself if you have to, but its another to steal from your man the opportunity to fend for you like he is designed inwardly to want to do.

What if everytime you tried to charm your man with womanly wiles he corrected you and said "I dont want that?"

Some other man would be delighted with your special ways, and would make you feel the things you wanted to feel... He would be stupid to reject your womanly gifts and steal from you the joy of offering them.

I suggest not going into a biker bar and saying, " How you ladies doing today? "
Women don't seem to mind being called "guys" but it don't work the other way
around. Not if ya wanted to stay out of the hospital.

I dont think there is any issue

@ Miss T

Sounds like your hubby is an aweful lucky feller, and I will bet he knows it! Good for Yall!

I think gender is like the transitions between landscapes with some middle ground that contains both landscapes. That is why there are manly women, effeminate men, and people are not clearly either gender. I don't have any battle with that. As long as someone isn't messing with me or harming others, I have no problem with them, however strange they may be. I am a fairly regular bloke myself, perhaps with a touch more testosterone and serotonin than most, lol.

No Shay , alot of women feel that way. I think we are talking about the kind who just reject everything their man has to offer... and they dont want their to be any difference in gender considered at all.

It's cool, I see no problem with that.