TJB?

The guy is not very good, and you have a shitty sense of humor. Did that answer your question?

Just kidding. I read a lot of what he posted at the link you gave, and I have to say, he may be a *******, but he didn't come across as all that judgmental. Mental, perhaps, but not very judgemental.

And to answer his question, a woman would not appreciate someone speaking to her crudely. 'You with those curves...and me with no brakes' is a world apart from the second thing he said. Some things are more interesting when implied rather than stated succinctly.

I used to be a janitor. I had to clean the restrooms. Believe me, I seen the grafitti on the walls and the men pale in comparison! Women can get down and dirty like no man could.

Men wouldn't appreciate women being direct and to the point. Perhaps at first it might seem refreshing but it would eventually become very troubling to men because we have such fragile egos, especially those who think they are God's gift to women!

What man likes a woman looking them straight in the eyes and saying, "Come on, let's do it right now"? You might think that's a good idea, but what would the little soldier do when under pressure to perform, eh?

Same thing with women. Some might not mind someone telling them in crude terms what they want them to do, but most would take offense, I believe. Those stories of women being ravished by the strong, sweaty man in romance novels is just that, a story, a fantasy. The reality is it would amount to rape if it were to happen. The woman, physically would not be ready as quickly as a man. Women are like coffee. Oh, sure, you can drink it cold, but if you'd take the time to warm it up first, it tastes SO much better!

There's the old joke that my uncle used to walk up to women on the street and say, "Hey, wanna f*&#?" Oh, he got slapped all the time, but that guy had more sex than any man I knew!

Sorry, but that's only a joke. Today, he'd also be arrested.

Want some? Be tactful. It works a lot better, at least for me. Even though we both know what's going on, it's a silly little game that we have to play. Women seem to like it that way.

Actually, how's about some of the women Warriors throwing in their two cents on this? Let's hear it from their side and see how far off I am.