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OK, I LOVE that this guy got this out, but WOW! I hope she gets NOTHING from the divorce!

Man Records Final Fight with Soon-to-Be-Ex-Wife, Uploads It to YouTube

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  • Profile picture of the author MissTerraK
    Oh my goodness!

    Really?

    Even my three year old grand daughter doesn't throw that good of fits!


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  • Profile picture of the author yukon
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    Jim says he knew it was truly over when his wife defriended him on Facebook.
    Jim is an idiot.
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    • Profile picture of the author seasoned
      Originally Posted by yukon View Post

      Jim is an idiot.
      I like women with a childlike joy, but THAT is going too far! Frankly, I would sk her to get out and WALK, or take the bus! So I would pretty much figure it was over, and be HAPPY!

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        Originally Posted by seasoned View Post

        I like women with a childlike joy, but THAT is going too far! Frankly, I would sk her to get out and WALK, or take the bus! So I would pretty much figure it was over, and be HAPPY!

        Steve
        My point was Jim isn't any brighter than the lady throwing a fit If Facebook helps make his life decisions.
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    screwball lol
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  • Profile picture of the author Mike Anthony
    Its her parents fault. They should have never given up custody.
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    • Profile picture of the author Brian John
      watched the vid a few times and feel a little different now than when i first saw it. def agree she's immature, among other things, but feel he's a little to blame as well. she appears to have anxiety issues and he knows it. rather than make any attempt to diffuse or at least alleviate the situation he purposely responds in a passive-aggressive manner, agitating her and perpetuating the situation. he knows exactly what her buttons are and he's pushing them...hard, regardless of how innocent he's trying to appear. sounds like she really wanted her cigarettes as well, take her to get them, the nicotine and a stop by the lake for a few minutes might be all it takes. i'm sure this guy has had some tough times w this chick but he married her and that's not how u treat your partner, especially if you're aware they have a problem. i don't know the whole situation and as such i may be completely wrong, but based on that vid i'd bet several of their past disputes could have been mitigated had he taken a slightly different approach.
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      • Profile picture of the author Paul Myers
        Brian,

        That was my impression, too, once the dude started responding to her. He knew exactly where he was pushing her, and he was getting off on it.

        The woman doesn't appear too stable, but who knows what's behind that. The guy? Whole different story. He's a cruel bast_rd, and that is a choice.


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  • Profile picture of the author seasoned
    Well, he DOES mention that she is texting her friends, etc.... I've known people like that.

    He sounds like he is doing SO much that many women say they wish THEIR husbands would do.

    And "mitigating" such a problem is certainly EASY! ISRAEL, for example, could have prevented most of the wars they had, the suicide bombers, etc.... by simply LEAVING ISRAEL! You can avoid civil lawsuits by simply paying all asked.

    Yeah, "mitigation" is EASY! Is it right or best? Often, NO WAY.

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  • Profile picture of the author Dennis Gaskill
    The fact that he was laughing at her antics as he recorded told me he was getting what he wanted out of that scene. Who knows what preceded that recording? The video, and the fact that he posted it online for everyone to see, says as much about him as it does her.
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    • Profile picture of the author TimPhelan
      That video isn't going to either one find a future mate. 8/
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    • Profile picture of the author Kay King
      I don't have sympathy for either of them - I'd say they probably deserve each other.

      I have no doubt he was setting her up - but, damn, she was easy to set up. You want to go to the lake...take yourself to the lake for crying out loud.

      I'm often surprised by behavior of couples I deal with in the casino. Amazing how often I spend an hour or two with a couple and wonder how on earth one of them manages to put up with the other. After another hour I often realize the "calm, collected" partner is as needy as the controlling or out of control partner.
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  • Profile picture of the author HeySal
    Being codependent while married doesn't make for a great future. They shouldn't have been married in the first place. It seems that they haven't reproduced. That's a good thing.
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