Help Picking Right Membership WP Plugin

I have spent the past week trying to decide what membership plugin to pick for my site There are pros and cons with all of them.

While I am sure most people just look at a few feature that seem cool and meets their needs and never really think through things and then later down the road fail with disaster.

However I want quality for my members ease of upgrades and payment cancels etc. I want quality for my affiliates that work hard to send me traffic. I want quality for myself so I can minimize all this tech stuff have as much on autopilot as possible so I can focus on my core business getting members and delivering great content.

But right now I am so frustrated I can't seem to make a step forward because it appears there is not a single payment gateway in the world that actually has the ability to handle managing affiliate tracking and payments and actually has a true working API that talks to membership software properly to make sure members, affiliates and site owners are happy. Well at least without paying a fortune and integrates with WordPress properly.

I am wanting to have a couple different pricing options for my membership site.
Membership Levels
Level 1 Free Limited Access
Level 2 Paid monthly recurring $7.95
Level 3 Paid yearly recurring $49.95
Level 4 VIP Lifetime (Not Recurring)

Levels 2 - 4 will have the same content access just slightly different payment options.

I would also like to use a payment provider like a Clickbank or JVZoo so I can also have an affiliate management service where I do not have to manage and pay affiliates. I love Paypal would rather be dealing with them exclusively but I am not sure how to do this other than using a product like IdevAffilate like I said I do not want to manage affiliates and getting them paid but want to utilize affiliate marketing.

I am pretty sure if I use IdevAffilate I have to take care of all the tax forms every year for all the affiliates and I really do not want to deal with all that.

I need the membership plugin to work with Buddypress
I need the membership plugin to support custom post types
I need members to easily "on their own" be able to upgrade from a lower level to a higher level and if they were already a prior paying member they only get charged for the new membership level they have elected.
I need members to be able to cancel their membership on their own without the need for support unless something goes wrong.

Most of the membership products out there that claim they have all these different features. Turns out they only work certain ways with certain payment gateways and you do not know this unless you ask a TON of questions and that process is slow as watching dirt age waiting for each response back and forth via support emails.

Can you tell me if your membership plugin will take care of these things and what the best path may be.

Possibly supply ideas on how to deal with making sure tax forms are delay with easily if I use IdevAffilate. For the life of me I can't believe they actually came back and told me they cannot advise me as they are not a tax accountant or an attorney...lol This is their business and has been for going on 2 decades

1. http://www.magicmembers.com Best looking payment gateway selection but some other challenges I see.

2. MemberMouse - WordPress Membership Plugin After 4 days and several emails they still have not responded to me for some presales questions. makes me wonder what the support on back-end will be like after they have me stuck on their monthly plans.

3. Home | Paid Memberships Pro

4. https://www.tipsandtricks-hq.com/wor...ip-plugin-1706

5. https://www.memberpress.com

WishList Member | Membership Site Software Complete out of date mess.

6. s2Member® | A powerful (free) membership plugin for WordPress® Living off an old name need to hire a documentation and training specialist to come in clean up their stuff. Complete mess and have even moved their site forums to WP forums kind of tells you where the project is going.

7. http://digitalaccesspass.com/ Good support but far to complicated. They need to hire a documentation and training specialist to come in clean up their stuff.

At this point I have no idea what the heck I am going to do for my Life Coach site.