what will you do with your wealth

hello,
i was just reading this http://www.nytimes.com/2013/09/10/ed...-nytimes&_r=1&

personally right now i have no money..that will change .

wealthy people and families use to exclude lower claases from their circles because they knew poor people could not understand the rich way of doing things ..in the late 80's ,90's and up to 5 or 6 years ago America was all about showing off wealth when you could .

now even in a place like Harvard the wealthy or ultra wealthy are supposed to tone it down ..this was the mindset that took over during the depression ..and because people had to tone down their flashy lifestyles ..it became the great depression .

i often find myself when i hear someone complaining about some rich person spending a million dollars on a car ..and they wine that the money could have been used to help poor people ..I attempt to explain that it went to the people who sold the car , built the car ..built and transported all the parts and machines to build the car ..

when you hear someone spending 30,000 dollars for ice sculpture at one party what is your reaction.

20,000 dollars for a dress for the girlfiriend.. 50 k for a watch.. 100k for an i phone someone decided to cover in diamonds .

now i am not for for spending money for flashy thing to impress others or be accepted ..but i am of with the idea that if you really like the best and very expensive things .. then make the money to get them ..also you will deal with people who have the same things because they like them